matthew ingham

A lot of people make the mistake of thinking that they are going to ‘win' their divorce. The problem with this mindset is that there are no winners in divorce. Divorce is not a place for winning, it is just a place for various degrees of losing. In that sense, I suppose that the spouse who loses the least in the divorce is the winner...

One of the biggest questions that people have about the divorce process is how to protect their children from the mud and the muck. Regardless of the age of your children, both you and your spouse should put mechanisms in place to protect your children. The younger the children are, the more protection that will be required by you and your spouse...

At some in point in time, either you or your spouse will move out of the marital residence and the separation will become official. During the separation, both you and your spouse will have a lot of unanswered questions. For example, you will both ask yourselves questions like: 'what's next?' 'where do I go from here?' do I need to hire a divorce attorney?' 'do I need to file for divorce?'...

Whenever you and your spouse separate, there will be a period of time where both of you feel a strong sense of uncertainty and anxiety. Questions will swirl through your head as you lay in bed at night about whether you should contact your family members and friends to inform them about the separation...

Keep in mind, there is more than one way to build a case and our advice that you follow the instructions given to you by your attorney. We also recommend that you follow your commonsense...

A lot of people make the mistake of hiring the wrong attorney to represent them during their divorce. These are the types of individuals who will hire an attorney who they do not like, do not trust, or not have much confidence in. Why do people hire an attorney who they do not like, do not trust, or do not have much confidence in??? Honestly, I do not know...

If you are reading this article, then there is a high likelihood that you are considering filing for divorce or have already filed for divorce. The reality of divorce is that is can be long and bitter. The other reality of divorce is that it can be short and sweet...

If you are reading this article then there is a high probability that you and your ex are experiencing divorce. The divorce process, as you already know, can be very long and complicated. The good news is that it does not have to be that way. A lot of divorces are short and simple...

We have all heard horror stories about divorce: there is the co-worker whose ex ‘got everything' in the divorce, including $1200.00 a month alimony for the next seven years; there is the neighbor who lost custody of her nine-year-old son; and who can forget the third cousin, whose divorce is still ongoing, two and half years after it was filed...

If you are reading this article, then there is a high probability that you and your ex are experiencing divorce. The good news about divorce is that it can be short and sweet. The bad news about divorce is that it can be long and bitter. If you and your ex are in fact experiencing divorce, then do yourself a favor and read the rest of this article...