Hardcore Dating Advice For Men
In the present day and age men as a whole have lost control of the dating arena. This makes no sense ! There are a shortage of real men in the country, but yet women are dictating all the rules. Men are portrayed as a bunch of beer drinking ,sex starved morons who can't do anything right, unless instructed by a woman. Present day man has been pummeled by the Oprah taught "I am woman revolution" who all say they don't need a man. Men that's a lie ! It's time to help set the record straight…Enter Frank "The Hammer" Valentine…a real man…from the days when Men were Men has set forth rules aka The Hammer Rules and direction to assist the present day men gain control of their lives and their women.
Rule 1: Get A Backbone
Women don't want a weak man. They want a real Man. A real Man is like an outlaw. They love the outlaws. Why? Because an outlaw doesn't bow down to anyone and express their mind. A real Man is the leader ,they take charge. A real man would never allow a woman to brow beat them. All real Men follow this rule:If a woman can't accept the Man being the head, then cut her loose ! Who needs the headache? FTH isn't trying to run for office, so he says what's on his mind and keep his options open.
Rule 2: Quit Looking For Your Mama
Many of the Men today are completely sorry when it comes to the basic points of life. Meaning they can't even boil a damn egg or make their own beds so they go out to find a woman, to take the role of their Mama to fill this need. These type of Men are looked down by women today. So tighten up on the basics and stay independent.
Rule 3: The First Real Date…
Take charge while on the first date because this is when the first area of jockeying for power is going to happen. The Man is going to be interviewed and scrutinized by every means necessary. Go on the offensive and be honest. Real Men don't have to lie. If a question is asked to a man and he doesn't want to answer, then don't. Set the pace and direction of the conversation. (FTH) likes to use one favorite line while sitting in front of the lady on the first date , "Other than sex what can you do for me?" Say nothing else and listen. She will be forced to offer an answer and it shows the serious side of the man. Why waste time?
Rule 4: Don't Play Married
(FTH) states the following points to the lady. Three things will happen while being together…
a. We either will become the best of friends
b. Break Apart
c. Get Married
Yes, by stating the "M" word we as Men establish our serious side. However note there is nothing gained by playing married. Quit adding the stress of married people by acting married.
Always respect the woman and oneself. The above points are just a few areas that may offer insight into being a better Man. Stay tuned for the next edition from Frank "The Hammer".
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