How Do I Get a Girl To Like Me?

Posted: Dec 30, 2010 |

For some guys, talking to girls is easy and just comes naturally. But there are a lot of guys out there (I was one of them) that become really nervous and shy when it comes to chatting up or approaching women.

It can be really frustrating when your out and about with your friends on a Friday night and their off chatting and dancing with girls and you left propping up the bar or sat at the table with a drink for company.

Even if a girl had been giving me the eye or a friend had told me "that girl in the red dress likes you" I would still freeze. I would think, Yeah right she wouldn't be interested in me or I don't what to say?

But you know there comes a time when you have to do something about it. Otherwise your life will pass you by and your come home after a night out and wonder what if! What if I'd just said "hi how are you"? "can I buy you a drink"?.

Everyone gets knocked back by girls, I got knocked back when I was in my young teens and that probably was the reason I lacked confidence.


But you have to get over that, and you can. You could practice on an ugly girl and build yourself up to the Prom Queen as you get more confident (only joking), But I always felt more comfortable when I was talking to girls I didn't fancy.

Like I said before everyone gets knocked back, but if you talked to 10 girls in one night, I bet one would be interested if not more.     

Guys are pretty bad when it comes to flirting. It's time you learnt a few of the basics, so that you can get an edge over the competition. These flirting tips will have you headed in the right direction in no time.

1) Posture and Positioning
Your posture communicates everything. You need to arch your back and stick out your chest. Take up space. If you're talking to a girl, stand no more than two feet away. Don't necessarily encroach her space, but stand just a little closer than you might ordinarily.

Maintain an open body position at all times. Never cross your arms or put your hands in your pockets. If you want to test her to see if she's into you, step back a foot and see if she follows. If she does come closer, it's a good sign.

2) Eyes
The eyes can be your most effective tool for flirting. Use your eyes to give off powerful stares of desire. It's possible to make a girl's heart skip a beat by giving her a playful, lusty, or lingering stare. If you're walking by a girl you've got the hots for, give her a 2-3 second stare and then slowly glance away (slow is important). Smile just as you start to look away. She'll get the message.

3) Touch
It's OK to lightly touch her shoulder or arm when you're talking to her. But be careful. Guys have to walk a fine line when it comes to touch. Don't go overboard or you'll freak the girl out.

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