Dr. Jeanne King, psychologist, author and speaker, helps people recognize the subtle communication patterns of verbal emotional abuse-what supports it and what interrupts it. Author of All But My Soul: Abuse Beyond Control, Dr. King developed the Intimate Partner Abuse Screen to help people properly identify, understand and stop domestic abuse before it spirals out of control. See how this online, interactive Intimate Partner Abuse Screen can help you find your answers about verbal emotional abuse.
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"You speak out about me breaking your shoulder and that hurts me. Now you will pay for ruining my career...my public image." Read on to see the dynamics of parental alienation when domestic violence is exposed in divorce court.
Your spouse is angry about God only knows what and there you are in the line of fire. Here are some things you can do to help you get out of the line of fire when verbal and emotional abuse erupts in your home.
"What if the abuser never ever apologizes, does not believe in remorse and has no empathy? What then...how do we heal from domestic violence?" Read on to look deeper into healing from domestic abuse.
When I show up for you, "inception" becomes the order of the day in our controlling relationship. It's as though you expect your thoughts to become my thoughts. And I struggle with having to decide, "Will it be we or me?" Sound familiar?
There are some very subtle yet distinct behaviors that controlling husbands exhibit in bed. Sometimes it is hard to know whether these are sexual signs of a controlling husband or idiosyncrasies of your intimate partner. However, when you see these signs in combination, beware...
Have you ever noticed how your partner's judgments about you say more about him than they do about you? Yet, he stands behind these emotionally abusive judgments and mental emotional abuse as though they are a certified list of your defects.
With some people you may notice yourself being relaxed, spontaneous and fully yourself. Whereas, with emotionally abusive individuals, you may find yourself guarded, tense and less forthcoming. Read on to learn how to distinguish emotional safety from emotional abuse.
"We are going to have to change ABC in order for 'this' to work," he demands. And all along neither he nor she understands why nothing happens. Communication in marriage like this closes off the dialogue. It stops it dead in its tracks. Why?
Have you ever considered the truth in the opposite of what grips you? For example, let's take the classic belief and experience of women dealing with spousal partner abuse: "He doesn't value me."
When you know the structure of silence, you hold the key to healing emotional abuse from within. Read on to learn about silence and healing from emotional abuse.

