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![]() Jody Johnston Pawel, LSW, CFLE - ArticlesJody Johnston Pawel is a Licensed Social Worker, Certified Family Life Educator,
second-generation parent educator, founder of The Family Network, and President of Parents Toolshop Consulting. She is the author of 100+ parent education resources, including her award-winning book, The Parent's Toolshop. For 25+ years, Jody has trained parents and family professionals through her dynamic workshops and interviews with the media worldwide, including Parents and Working Mother magazines, and the Ident-a-Kid television series. Jody currently serves as the online parenting expert for Cox Ohio Publishing’s mom-to-mom websites and also serves on the Advisory Board of the www.effectiveparentingusa.org/" /> Immunize yourself Against Toxic PeopleMost parents will attend a family gathering this holiday season. Many will also endure a chronically negative or critical relative. You know who I mean. Every family seems to have at least one. That person we avoid all year long but have to see at holidays because we’re related.
If you don’t have a relative like this, count your blessings — then look at your workplace or neighborhood. You probably have someone in your life that fits this bill. However we know this person, we need a plan for kee Defeat the Dread of Family GatheringsAs the holidays approach, many of us are scheduling family gatherings. Some parents joyfully anticipate the holidays and the positive family interactions that will create warm, loving memories. For many, the thought of being around negative, toxic family members brings a feeling of dread and doom.
This month and next, I’m offering helpful tips for managing the negative aspects of some family gatherings. Next, I’ll give tips for handling criticism and toxic, negative people. Taming the Holiday GimmeesGift-giving season has begun. If you’re like me, you fantasize about the moment your children open their gifts: their faces light up with surprise and excitement, they give you a hug and say, “Thanks, I love it!”
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