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Alex Strandberg - ArticlesThe Girl Who Cried Rape***QUESTION FROM A READER***
Hey Alex,
I have run into some problems with an on again off again girlfriend of the past couple of years. I was cheated on by her and she lied about it. At first she claimed that she had been raped by this guy and later she confessed that she wasn’t. At the time I felt like it wasn’t really her fault and she deserved another chance but now I know that it was her fault. How to Stop Being Nervous Around Beautiful WomenStep by step article to understanding where your nervousness around women comes from and what you can do to ELIMINATE your nervousness, shyness and anxiety. How to Be Confident Part Three: The SoulListening to the mind can be very detrimental to your confidence. Learning to escape the mind and re-connecting with your soul can help you develop real confidence that can not be shaken or broken for anything.
The greatest tool that you have at your disposal for cutting through the fog that the mind creates is meditation. Meditation allows you to enter into the calm, peaceful and non thinking state that alcohol creates without consuming a single drop. How to Be Confident Part Three: The SoulListening to the mind can be very detrimental to your confidence. Learning to escape the mind and re-connecting with your soul can help you develop real confidence that can not be shaken or broken for anything.
The greatest tool that you have at your disposal for cutting through the fog that the mind creates is meditation. Meditation allows you to enter into the calm, peaceful and non thinking state that alcohol creates without consuming a single drop. How to Be Confident Part One: The BodyThe majority advice you receive on the internet is the same hackneyed garbage that has been floating around since your parents were growing up. Take in, rinse, recycle and repeat is their motto. Worse of all is that their advice gets implanted in your head after a thousand or so times of hearing it.
Through trial and error I have figured out how to gain the ever so elusive trait called confidence. Since you can’t spell attraction without confidence I will tell you how-no credit card required. How to Be Confident Part Two: The MindYou will hear me say this over and over but it’s worth repeating, YOU ARE NOT YOUR THOUGHTS. Identifying with your mind and listening to your thoughts will cause a large amount of anxiety, depression and an overall lack of confidence.
Most people believe that they are their thoughts but this is far from the truth. Spend an hour, day, even a week just observing your thoughts. After a week you will notice two things:
1. The mind is mostly fear based and thus not very useful Is Porn Good For You?The lights are dimmed, shades are down and your favorite scented candles are burning. The mood is just right to say hello to your monster but is masturbating to porn a good thing or not? To answer that question, yes and no. There is no such thing as good or bad but only consequences of your actions. Every consequence is either desirable or undesirable.
Whether the consequences of masturbating are desirable or not depends greatly on your perspective and who you are. It’s not the action in Live To Entertainhumor is very subjective and not everyone is going to like the same things. Some might like racist jokes, some don’t. Some like cute jokes with a twist or play on words but some won’t. Some people, like myself, enjoy very crude jokes.
The problem is that you are attempting to make everyone laugh by changing yourself. Trying to please everyone with your humor is impossible to do. It’s similar to trying to make food that is loved by all. It can’t be done and you will waste your time trying to Buy yourself a Hooker Instead of Taking Women on DatesThe age old question of who should pay on a date or in a relationship, the man or the woman? Most people would agree that the man should pay but this becomes a problem when the man pays too much. He opens up his wallet hoping that at the end of the night the woman will open up her pants. Often he is shut down and better off buying a hooker instead. Recovering From Being a "nice" GuyYou have listened to her complain about the jerk who treated her badly countless times only to watch her go out with him again and again. All of your selfless acts fall to the wayside only to hear about her mistreatment the following week.
You are left in pit of despair and confusing as the mantra “nice guy’s finish last” repeats in your head. “When will she wake up? When will she realize that there is a nice guy who will treat her the way she deserves to be treated sitting right here?”
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