James B, Relationship Expert

It's one thing to know how to attract a woman. Any guy can get dressed up, style his hair nicely, and look good at a bar. But how do you take the next step--SEDUCING women? Camille Paglia said that "Pursuit and seduction are the essence of sexuality. It's part of the...

Neil Strauss' story is a typically American one. In fact, it has Hollywood written all over it. Interestingly, though, it's very much real: Guy who can't get any girls, goes to seminars about how to get girls, meets relationship gurus, becomes most famous one himself, gets more girls than he...

It's funny how these short-term marriages and long-term miseries occur. Usually it begins with a bad case of "Oneitis." Don't know the word Oneitis? Well, surely you know this infectious disease's symptoms: * You think you've met the girl who's perfect for you, who you can have a great relationship with and...

When you're wondering just how to attract women with ease, go to your friend...man's best friend, that is! Yup, dogs are great "assets" towards picking up woman. Attraction isn't a choice--but if you understand how having a dog is something that women are naturally attracted to, you can use a dog...

Online dating is a multi-million dollar business, but for my money, I'd rather meet girls the natural way: out and about, in real-life situations. Not the bar, not the club. Just natural, fun ways that get both of you participating and talking about common interests and acquaintances. Think that's not possible?...

It's a common complaint, an annoying situation, even a man's worst nightmare. You know what I'm talking about: When a girl you like wants to be "just friends." Aaaaargh! Who wants that? You like this girl, you want intimacy, but all she wants is friendship. How do you turn things around? How...

One of my favorite "guy" movies is "The Tao of Steve," which shows how Dex, a fat guy with no aspirations, easily gets hot, gorgeous women. How? Simply by following the 3 rules of the Tao. They are: Eliminate your desires. Do something excellent in her presence, thereby proving your sexual worthiness. Retreat,...

There's nothing worse than being in a slump. Or so they say. I've been there, chances are you've been there, and I have a good friend who's there right now. It's affected just about every guy, and is the ultimate discouragement in our pursuit of women...if you let it be. But for all...

"Science is organized knowledge. Wisdom is organized life." -Immanuel Kant Welcome to the first edition of Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Seduction (But Were Afraid to Ask!). This series is designed to help you expand your wisdom in the world of attraction and seduction. As I said in a...

A lot of guys have been asking me what we men should do for body language, so this column will give you the answers: how to recognize female body language, how to react to it, and how to use your own body language to flirt with women successfully, from start...