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I'm Jane Thomas author of www.WaysWomenOrgasm.org and www.Nosper.com There is a scene in the film ‘The Chicken Run’ where Ginger, our hero, returns from solitary confinement after her umpteenth escape failure. Another chicken tentatively suggests that, since the chances of them breaking out of the chicken farm are evidently ‘a million to one against’, perhaps Ginger should consider giving up on her dream. A demoralised Ginger pauses to reflect for a moment and then quietly but resolutely, replies: ‘Then there’s still a chance!’ What a girl! At times, my experience of trying to bring more realism to modern day sex information has felt a little like the prospect of escaping from a concentration camp: so impossible that it has seemed futile even to try. I would like my daughters to have the experience of orgasm but I do not want them to be duped by all the claims of easy orgasm during sex with a partner. My daughters’ generation should have more facts about how women can get the most out of sex. Sex remains a highly personal and embarrassing topic for most people. I hope that my efforts will save other couples some of the difficulties we have had in making sense of our sexual relationship. If you are in a long-term relationship and still having sex at all after ten to twenty years then you are probably unusual. If you have moved beyond missionary style intercourse and can discuss fantasy and more general pleasuring as a couple then you are almost certainly exceptional. For those who are willing to invest in the quality of their relationship, couples now have the relative luxury of being able to aspire to both partners’ life goals of enjoying family life and an active sex life. Please take a look at my websites: www.WaysWomenOrgasm.org and www.Nosper.com. WaysWomenOrgasm.org aims to inform and reassure women of all ages: both the site content and pictures are completely clean. The discussion is based on honesty not sexual ego and covers: sex drive, the role of fantasy and why orgasm from masturbation may always be different to orgasm from penetration. Originally, foreplay was suggested as a solution to the inadequate clitoral stimulation provided by intercourse. Unfortunately, not only do women need clitoral stimulation to continue up to the point of orgasm but also, due to the sensitivity of the clitoris, it can be difficult for a man to provide the right kind of stimulation. So when women ask about lack of orgasm today, experts suggest that they masturbate during sex. In fact, little is known about how successful women are with this approach in practice. To help improve our understanding, www.WaysWomenOrgasm.org invites women to share how they achieve arousal and orgasm with a partner. Nosper.com is interested in promoting approaches to family life that allow us to raise children while remaining sane. The site welcomes suggestions for how adults of both sexes can continue doing their own thing and having fun together while, at the same time, being there for their kids. Sort By: Date | Popularity
 Lust is goodI suppose that I have been lucky. I have had a sex drive that is unusual for a woman. I know that this is unusual because most women talk of love, trust and comittment. From time to time, I positively enjoy jumping on my man. The male lover as a sex godThe misconception that vaginal intercourse, or any physical stimulation technique for that matter, will lead to spontaneous female sexual arousal leads to women taking a passive stance in sex. They continue to hope indefinitely that a man, knowing how to reach his own orgasm, will somehow know how to make ‘a miracle’ happen. The 10 facts of female sexualityBeliefs about female sexuality are more often based on fantasy than facts. These are the 10 essential facts that every woman (if she is interested in sharing her own sexual arousal and orgasm with a partner) should know: Lack of orgasm is not a sexual dysfunctionIt is highly misleading to tell women that lack of orgasm during sex is a sexual dysfunction… It is simply the way things are for many women who hope for orgasm from their sexual relationships. Confusion over female orgasmWhen they talk about their sexual relationships with men, women will often refer to love, trust and commitment. These factors are obviously important for the stability of long-term relationships that family life depends on. But they are not factors that will help a woman learn how to enjoy orgasm during sex. Sex experts who advise on female orgasmMost women, sex experts or not, never learn to masturbate. Without the knowledge of how to achieve their own orgasm through masturbation, they never learn how their own sexual arousal works and that genital stimulation is required for orgasm as much for women as it is for men. Most Women Are Not Aiming For Orgasm Through Genital StimulationWomen like to refer to sex as 'making love' because it indicates that their motives are loving rather than explicitly sexual. Modern expectations may cause some women to talk about their sexual experiences in terms of arousal and orgasm. But many others interpret sex as a loving act without needing to talk about orgasm at all. Why Sex is Called 'making Love'The heterosexual act of vaginal intercourse is designed foremost as an expression of love between a man and a woman. After all, if sex was purely about two people reaching orgasm, then we would more naturally engage in activities that involve more direct genital stimulation. Intercourse is a natural progression from kissing to a man capitalising on his sexual arousal to 'make love' to a woman. Explanations for female sexual arousalWomen's sexual arousal is poorly understood so that men often assume that women must be able to orgasm even without clitoral stimulation. Few women learn that they will need to use orgasm techniques to experience true sexual arousal with a partner. Defending the modern image of female sexualityMany people are highly defensive about the idea that not every woman knows how to orgasm during sex. Women's sexual arousal is not as automatic's as men's tends to be and so they have to learn how to use their orgasm techniques during sex.
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