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I'm Jane Thomas author of www.WaysWomenOrgasm.org and www.Nosper.com There is a scene in the film ‘The Chicken Run’ where Ginger, our hero, returns from solitary confinement after her umpteenth escape failure. Another chicken tentatively suggests that, since the chances of them breaking out of the chicken farm are evidently ‘a million to one against’, perhaps Ginger should consider giving up on her dream. A demoralised Ginger pauses to reflect for a moment and then quietly but resolutely, replies: ‘Then there’s still a chance!’ What a girl! At times, my experience of trying to bring more realism to modern day sex information has felt a little like the prospect of escaping from a concentration camp: so impossible that it has seemed futile even to try. I would like my daughters to have the experience of orgasm but I do not want them to be duped by all the claims of easy orgasm during sex with a partner. My daughters’ generation should have more facts about how women can get the most out of sex. Sex remains a highly personal and embarrassing topic for most people. I hope that my efforts will save other couples some of the difficulties we have had in making sense of our sexual relationship. If you are in a long-term relationship and still having sex at all after ten to twenty years then you are probably unusual. If you have moved beyond missionary style intercourse and can discuss fantasy and more general pleasuring as a couple then you are almost certainly exceptional. For those who are willing to invest in the quality of their relationship, couples now have the relative luxury of being able to aspire to both partners’ life goals of enjoying family life and an active sex life. Please take a look at my websites: www.WaysWomenOrgasm.org and www.Nosper.com. WaysWomenOrgasm.org aims to inform and reassure women of all ages: both the site content and pictures are completely clean. The discussion is based on honesty not sexual ego and covers: sex drive, the role of fantasy and why orgasm from masturbation may always be different to orgasm from penetration. Originally, foreplay was suggested as a solution to the inadequate clitoral stimulation provided by intercourse. Unfortunately, not only do women need clitoral stimulation to continue up to the point of orgasm but also, due to the sensitivity of the clitoris, it can be difficult for a man to provide the right kind of stimulation. So when women ask about lack of orgasm today, experts suggest that they masturbate during sex. In fact, little is known about how successful women are with this approach in practice. To help improve our understanding, www.WaysWomenOrgasm.org invites women to share how they achieve arousal and orgasm with a partner. Nosper.com is interested in promoting approaches to family life that allow us to raise children while remaining sane. The site welcomes suggestions for how adults of both sexes can continue doing their own thing and having fun together while, at the same time, being there for their kids. Sort By: Date | Popularity
 Explanations for female sexual arousalWomen's sexual arousal is poorly understood so that men often assume that women must be able to orgasm even without clitoral stimulation. Few women learn that they will need to use orgasm techniques to experience true sexual arousal with a partner. Defending the modern image of female sexualityMany people are highly defensive about the idea that not every woman knows how to orgasm during sex. Women's sexual arousal is not as automatic's as men's tends to be and so they have to learn how to use their orgasm techniques during sex. Women who want to enjoy sexual pleasureThe sexual revolution proposed that women could enjoy sexual arousal as a natural part of their sexual relationships. Yet sexual fantasies are often based on the kind of scenarios where men pay women to provide them with sexual pleasure. How a woman can enjoy sex playSex play can become more arousing for an older woman (over 35). As a woman ages, her clitoris becomes less sensitive for a partner to touch and so clitoral stimulation combined with eroticism can lead to a physical sexual arousal. What sex experts have told meFemale masturbation is relatively uncommon so that many women (even sex experts) are not familiar with orgasm. They may insist that they orgasm from intercourse but they find it difficult to explain HOW their sexual arousal works and HOW they reach orgasm. How to enjoy your sexual fantasiesWomen use clitoral stimulation during female masturbation but, more importantly, their sexual arousal comes from sexual fantasies. Some women also use sexual fanatasies during sex with a partner. Making the most of sex playMy partner and I have enjoyed exploring sex over decades. I have enjoyed my own sexual arousal through an appreciation of eroticism and my sexual fantasies. Men are fascinated by sexMen enjoy sexual pleasure much more readily than women because their sexual arousal is more easily achieved. Women usually need a more sophisticated sexual context or sexual fantasy for female sexual arousal. What if female sexuality truly equalled male sexuality?Imagine the scenario: a man and a woman facing each other, naked, in a world where men and women have an identical sex drive. So, of course, they are both standing there with an erection. Just to be clear: the man has an erect penis and the woman has an erect clitoris. The sexual politics of female sexual desireAll the modern day hype about female sexuality was in part sparked off by the work of Alfred Kinsey. Kinsey’s report ‘Sexual behaviour in the human female’ (published 1953) documented for the first time women’s accounts of how they also enjoyed sexual desire.
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