Len Stauffenger's parents taught him life's simple wisdom. As a divorced dad, he wanted to share that simple wisdom with his girls."Getting Over It", his book, is the solution. Len is a Reiki Master, an author, a Success Coach and an Attorney.
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Are you a custodial parent in a divorce, in particular, are you a single mother operating on a tight budget? Here are some great budget-stretching tips to help you.
Children can be taught early on and easily about handling money in their lives. Any one of these nine practical tips from author and divorced dad, Len Stauffenger, help you get the point across.
When you're divorced, one of the biggest challenges when there are children involved is the ongoing interface you must have with your ex. Your children deserve this communication because they don't handle change real well, and this communication is part of the continuity they so want and so deserve to have.
Why consider reconciliation vs. a divorce? Because divorce has consequences that can be enormous and overwhelming and painful for everyone involved. If you can prevent it, please consider reconciliation.
Frequently in a divorce, if you are the custodial parent, the children do their homework at your house under your supervision. Because we understand and respect about children coming first when you're divorced, just how are you handling setting consistent implementing of homework standards when they visit their other parent?
When we are young, we are inexperienced and just not savvy when it comes to building quality relationships. We base our decisions on reasons that are subtly buried inside ourselves, and we avoid looking at the clues that are right in front of us. You can unfold the skills that it takes to not make that mistake twice. Nobody wants two divorces.
Divorce presents many opportunities for the unfoldment of your character and establishing a reasonable visitation agreement is one of those times. If you keep the welfare of the children tantamount, you will be successful.
Are the demands of raising children getting to you? Are you a divorced parent who experiences anger? Do you snap at your own children because of your stress? Here are some tips to identify if you are reaching critical mass.
There Were Times During the Early Days of My Divorce, When I Did not Want to See My Ex's Face. Period. and Yet, There Were the Children Who Were Accustomed to Seeing Her at Family Parties. What is the Best Thing to Do for the Sake of the Kids?
Divorce emotions are hard enough one time, so you want to do everything you can not to repeat the same mistakes. Even if it looks like your ex is the one who made mistakes, it did take two to tango. If you journal about the divorce, you will discover your role and not make the same mistake twice.

