Pat Matson

Our lives involve spirituality as the "behind the scenes" machinations that motivate our appearance, our success, our sense of self and our happiness. Understanding this is the key to living a wonderful life.

So many people think that if the size of your body doesn't match some arbitrary standard that they have adopted without the resource of reasoning, then the individual with the large body is somehow sinning. It's not necessarily so. Fat is a wonderful catalyst for growth.

One of my therapy sessions was about how each of us had one thing that kept us from our unfoldment. My therapist was insecure because he thought his eyes were too close together. One of the other members in the group felt that the skin on the back of her hands was wrinkled and ugly. I, of course, kvetched about being fat. Ah, the sorrows of obesity! Not!!!

If you suffer under the burdens of obesity, did you ever dream under all that stuff, the possibility of a body mind healing is buried? Being overweight, then fat, and then obese was the main catalyst for learning about Life's Laws, in particular spiritual healing. I want to help you learn them too. Your obesity can save your soul, you know.

Are you frustrated about what's happening in the dating scene if you are an obese woman? I've tried BBW dating sites and I haven't been successful. I'd like a warm, caring relationship. What's a girl to do?

Over 65% of people living in the United States are fat or obese. If you are one of these fat people, you've got emotions that are just raging over this condition. I know because I am a fat woman myself. Read on to get a grip on your bad feelings, learn about spiritual healing, and let those emotions do something useful, like heal you.

The saying "What you think is what you get" applies to obesity, and self healing begins in your mind not at the end of your fork. How aware are you of what you have habitually been thinking about your body?

Are you feeling frustrated about the stern judgments coming your way due to the size of your body? Allowing anyone other than your own sweet self to render these judgments and then believing them really needs to come to a halt inside you. If you can quit obsession about obesity or not losing weight and learn how to use Cause and Effect, it can lead to losing weight. It did for me.

Would you love to never get up on a digital scale to measure your weight loss again? I know you want to be at a healthy weight if you are a fat woman. Losing weight seems to be inbred for us. Here are several other methods of keeping track of your progress.