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Rita Offen is a parent and Author of 'The Chilled Parent' - Effective Parenting, Peacefully and Powerfully. The antidote to all the parenting advice out there, it's about reality, and guilt-free parenting.
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 From Homework Hell to Homework HeavenWe’ve all been there ….. half an hour later he’s still sitting at the table, having done nothing but, well, probably day-dreaming, or, after one look at the task set, flies into a “I can’t do this” rage. The homework scenario seems to follow a regular pattern, which can be time-consuming, frustrating and tiring for all concerned. so how can we break out of the old habitual homework scenario and break into a new empowering and positive experience? The Power of One-to-one Time With Your TeenTeenagers need their parents to reach out for a genuine connection. Their parents are still significant and fundamental to their lives, and they still need a loving and supportive source in their lives, especially with the changes they are going through. However, when our child turns into a teenager it often seems that we lose a connection with them, a connection we had built up over their younger, formative years. But all is not lost. There are ways to reconnect with our teen Developing your Child's Appreciation of the Natural WorldEncouraging an appreciation of the natural world and its beauty is a wonderful gift we can give our children, not just for today but for the future. An appreciation of nature is a gentle de-stresser which your children, when adults, can enjoy and benefit from. Such an appreciation gives them a well-balanced and pleasurable view of the world about them. Your Teen Just Wants your TimeWhen our child turns into a teenager it often seems that we lose a connection with them, a connection we had built up over their younger, formative years. There are ways, however, that parents can rebuild that connection for a closer relationship with their teen. How to Help your Child Do Well at SchoolIf your child is doing well at school your job is easy. However, if not, it can be difficult when you feel, because you are not in the school with him, you have little control or motivational input in his education. Often the picture you only get to see is that of his homework tasks, and news of any misdemeanour. It is hard knowing what is really going on, and how you can do your absolute best to help him get the most he can out of the long time he has at school. Seven Ways to Deal With Turbulent TeensThe seemingly sudden onset of teenage behaviour is something that can come as shock and confusion to parents. The key point to know is that it is only a phase and that it will pass. Your key role as a parent is to maintain that strong, trusting and supportive relationship throughout, to enable your teen to deal with the changes in his life, and prepare himself for a happy and fulfilling adult life. Five Steps to Raising Confident KidsPersonal power is the self-belief and confidence to know that you are capable of anything you set your mind to. It means you feel good about yourself, and that you do not rely upon others’ opinions to feel good about yourself. Such a strength is something we all want our children to have, and there are ways that parents can teach their children and empower them to have the confidence to try new things and focus on their abilities rather than their failures. Empowering Kids to Reach Their DreamsChildren will always have their strengths and weaknesses, be particularly gifted in certain things, and confusingly clumsy and slow in others. Rather than worrying about what your child is achieving or not achieving, focussing on your interaction and relationship with your child will make all the difference to his future. Whatever his talents, you can help your child feel loved and therefore empowered in whatever he desires to do. Stuff Matters to KidsWe often say ‘wealth and possessions are not important’ – true, but personal possessions are important to kids. Young children especially can become attached to their personal possessions. It may not seem important to adults, but small, simple and seemingly insignificant objects can have much significance in the lives of young children. What are you Feeding your Child's Emotional Appetite?Whatever your child’s talents, you can help him feel loved and therefore empowered to do whatever he desires. This involves concentrating on your interaction and personal relationship with your child, the language you use, the love you show, the trust and responsibility you bestow upon him, and just being happy with him whatever his likes and dislikes, and whoever he is.
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