Rori Raye
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Rori Raye is a trained relationship coach who teaches her readers the effective Tools she developed to turn her own miserable, empty love life into the glorious, decades-long marriage she has now. Rori Raye truly cares about each and every one of her readers: By sharing her own experiences - both the humiliating and wonderful ones - it's her mission to spare every woman she reaches the trial-and-error she went through. Her writing voice is warm, understanding, caring, encouraging, cheerleading, supportive, personal, honest and straight forward. Her readers see her as best friend and fairy godmother, with a we're-in-this-together attitude. She takes specific, scenario-driven situations that almost all women find themselves in with men, and solves them both practically - with specific things to say and do - and on an easily accessible spiritual, woo-woo level - with a little bit of magic fairy dust.
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Contrary to what we women have been taught, men actually love it when we express our feelings. Because they are "thinking" creatures, our ability to be feminine and emotional is what attracts men and mesmerizes them. It's true. When we're in touch with our feelings and express them in a non-dramatic, non-blaming way, a man melts and we are very attractive to him. He then feels safe to get in touch with his own feelings and share them with us.
If you're afraid of losing a man because you won't agree to a "friends with benefits" type of arrangement, I've got news for you: you've already lost him. And if you do agree to sex without exclusivity, the only thing you will lose – the thing that really matters – is yourself. That's a terrible place to be and one I would never wish for you. I know, because I've been there – until I raised my self esteem to the point I was finally able to attract my husband.
If you ALLOW a man to treat you badly (assuming you're not in a traumatic, helpless situation) – and this means ANY way that doesn't feel GOOD and nourishing to you…then you must take responsibility for it. There are lots of old sayings about this… most of them are about blame and shame and fault – and I'd like to stay away from all that.
