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Human relationship* are fragile bonds that need to be built up and maintained in order to keep them healthy and allow them to flourish. Regrettably, break ups do happen, and they are nerve wracking, stressful and baffling. Whenever you are involved in a relationship that breaks apart, you may be thinking that you want to get back at your ex but is this really the best step to take? One of the most cogent ways that you can actually get back at your ex will not only put your ex in an interesting quandary, but it may also repair the relationship by showing your ex how important you are and were to them. So not only are these 5 tips to get back at your ex but they are also fantabulous know-hows for getting your ex back as well.
1 - Be unassailable. No one needs the needy, and this saying applies very well when it comes to broken up relationships. You need to stop begging, clinging or demonstrating the demeanor of someone who is feeling desperate. Let your ex think that you have marched on just fine without them by acting impregnable and moving on. When you've moved on, your ex will realize that they have not.
2 - Minimize communicating. Closing the doors of communication may appear unreasonable when your primary focus is to rekindle things, but it is one of the most important steps when getting back at your ex or getting your ex back. Take a break from your ex, close off communication, and let him or her stew for a little while without any contact. This will allow your ex to clear his or her mind and realize how valuable your relationship was.
3 - Be conciliatory. Do not be emphatic with your ex, postulating that they move out, or pick their things up by a certain date. Be compromising, be a listener and a sympathizer. Your ex will be surprised when they see this side of you, and it may inspire them to build the lines of communication that were lacking when the breakup descended into play.
4 - Get the heck out! This is no time for you to be alone. Call your friends and get out of the house. Explicate a social network and enjoy some amusement in your life. This may not mean you need to date, or even pay attention to the opposite gender, but you do need to be getting out and enjoying your time with your friends. Not only will this be therapeutic for you, but it will also help convince your ex that they lost a gem.
5 - Simply be yourself. There was a really good reason for why you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, so go back to being yourself and let your ex remember why they loved you in the first place. This renewed self perception of your own self will surely rub off on your ex as well.
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