Can You be Romantic After a Break Up? 5 tips for you

Posted: Jan 07, 2010 |Comments: 0 |

Sounds like a challenge, but here are 5 ways to be romantic after a break up that will

help you express your feelings.  These ideas will make your ex feel special which is

one of the most important things you must do when you want to get back together.

Remember, its important to respect your ex's wishes.  If you're stopping by and

calling, emailing, or texting and they want you to stop, you need to stop.  But that

does not mean you cannot make a romantic gesture.

If you want your romantic gesture to be better received you don't want to do it

immediately.  Quit bothering your ex and begging them to come back.  Allow them some

space without you.  Let some time pass, then you can make one of these romantic

gestures and surprise them and get them thinking of you again.

Tip #1:  Doing something very thoughtful will win points for you.  Let some time pass

after the break up to give them space and to get their emotions in check.  Then you

could send a card or gift that is obviously just for them.  Send a card of

encouragement if they have an exam coming up or a big project at work, with out

mentioning yourself.  Instead of the fancy gift for a birthday or other occasion, wash

their car or mow the lawn to show that you care.

Tip #2:  You need to focus on that person.  Let some time pass after the break up and

then call or stop by when it feels right to do so.  Ask if they need help with

anything or if you could do something for them.  Do not talk about yourself or what

you want.  Do this not expecting anything in return.

Tip #3:  You could send flowers. Send a bouquet of their favorite flowers and have

them delivered to their home, not at work or in front of alot of other people.  Write

a message on the card like "I hope you are doing well" or "Just thinking of you"

Tip #4:  If you have something you know they want, give it up.  It could be a CD that

belongs to you but you can replace that, offer it to them because you know they like

it and it is something they want.

Tip #5: Surprise them with two tickets to a movie or play designed for men to take

someone else, that doesn't necessarily include you, but they might just ask you now

that the pressure is off.

These 5 ways to be romantic after a break up can help your efforts to get back

together, reignite the flame, it could make you both feel good.

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    Johnny Wayne

    You chose to break his heart and he chose to break yours, but now you both feel you want to get back into the same old you and him. Really, how can you be the same person giving the same romance after a break up? That doesn't exactly provide you with opportunities for romance when you're not dating or seeing each other at all.

    By: Johnny Waynel Relationships> Breakupl Nov 24, 2010
    chad siemer

    So you've broken up with the individual you enjoy and you would like them back. But how are you able to be romantic with someone right after you've broken up with them?

    By: chad siemerl Relationships> Breakupl May 15, 2011

    Have you broken up with the one you love and now want to get them back? How can you get back someone you broke up with, when you are still in love with them? You would like to use some romantic methods but how can it be done when you do not have a chance to see them?

    By: Makoo L.l Relationships> Breakupl Aug 01, 2011
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    The breakup was bad, but now that you have settled down you are wondering how you can get your ex boyfriend back. With these vital tips betting your ex back can be easy.

    By: H. L. Archerl Relationships> Breakupl May 28, 2012

    Does your ex however have emotions towards you? Following a split, it may be tough to know. In one instance you may find out your ex becoming flirty and loving and also the following instance he/she won't even grant you an opportunity to devote time with them.

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    When you have lost the man you love, you miss him and long to have him back. You think if you could only make him feel the way you are feeling, he will come running back. Learn how easy you can make this happen.

    By: H. L. Archerl Relationships> Breakupl May 25, 2012

    If you have recently gone through a bad break up it is natural to want to text your ex back especially if you discover that you still have feelings for her. It is necessary though that you make sure that you do not communicate with her in a way that will scare her away or you will end up suffering the consequences of losing her for good.

    By: Laura Marial Relationships> Breakupl May 25, 2012

    However justified you feel in arguing in your relationships, it will not solve your problems or bring you closer to your man. Arguing in relationships will only stop when you stop blaming and start to take responsibility for how you feel. Bring back the peace and harmony in your life and relationships with this advice.

    By: Lucy O'Brienl Relationships> Breakupl May 25, 2012
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    The internet is a great place to surf when looking for free relationship advice, but you will probably find some good/bad advice. People are eager to share their experiences when they have weathered a damaged relationship and won back their loved one. The strategies that worked for one person may or may not work for you, but there are some common factors the experts agree on.

    By: Vikki Andersonl Relationships> Breakupl Mar 06, 2010
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    Shelves of books written on relationships in every book store you go to. Self help techniques may not work if you are in a bad relationship, you have to find the right advice for your situation and that may not be as easy as you think.

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    You are trying to discover why you and your partner aren't getting along? Does every book you read on relationship philosophy and psychology appear to contradict each other?

    By: Vikki Andersonl Relationships> Marriagel Feb 26, 2010
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    Just to be clear, you broke up. Why? There was a reason you broke up and you don not want to repeat what that "Why" was. Take a long, hard look at that "Why" before you even think about getting back together.

    By: Vikki Andersonl Relationships> Breakupl Feb 26, 2010
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    You are alone. You Are Separated from your husband, physically or emotionally and You Want Your Husband Back. Your husband has moved out or he is still there but you are not communicating with each other. He may as well be living somewhere else. You do not want to give up on your marriage, the thought of failure is unbearable. The two of you have a problem and depending on the extent of that problem, reconciliation can be difficult but not impossible.

    By: Vikki Andersonl Relationships> Marriagel Feb 05, 2010 lViews: 121

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