Coping With A Relationship Breakup When He Walks Out On You

Posted: Jul 04, 2010 |Comments: 0 |

Imagine that one weekend, out of the blue, your husband tells you he wants to move out and get a divorce. All he wants to say to you, is that he no longer loves you and he wants to find somewhere else to live. That kind of news is enough to make anyone buckle. At first you might believe there is a solution to the problem, and that it can be worked out.

You could see a therapist, who would give you some good advice on what to do next. But will your husband come with you? You cannot make him if he does not want to.  By choosing not to see the therapist with you, you can assume it is all over between you. He seems to have made his mind up, and does not want to mend the relationship.

He is obviously only interested in himself. You must look after yourself, as well. Someone has to be there for the children, and that someone is you. It is a situation not of your own making, but you are the one left picking up the pieces, and that is not fair.

How much do you know about your husband? He could be in another relationship without you knowing about it, even though he has not mentioned it, so far. He might want to come back to you some time in the future, but will he do the same thing again?

You have to be strong and tell yourself you can come through this a better person. Find out if he is willing to at least talk to you to see if things can be worked out between you. He owes you this courtesy. If he won't, then there is no point in pursuing it further. You cannot have a lasting relationship where only on partner loves the other. It just will not work.

Te read this article in full see the link below.

Questions and Answers

Ask
200 Characters left
Rate this Article
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
  • 0 vote(s)
    Feedback
    Print
    Re-Publish
    Source:  http://www.articlesbase.com/breakup-articles/coping-with-a-relationship-breakup-when-he-walks-out-on-you-2774737.html

    Article Tags:

    coping with a relationship breakup

    ,

    a relationship breakup

    ,

    coping with breakup

    ,

    breakup

    ,

    relationship break up

    There are a number of measures that will help you to deal with relationship breakup without leaving your pride in shreds. Here are some of the things you should take into serious consideration.

    By: Chris Robertsl Relationships> Breakupl Jan 09, 2010 lViews: 101

    This article will be able to guide you on how to get your ex back whether its your husband wife girlfriend and boyfriend. It contains guides that have helped thousands of people get their ex lover bac...

    By: Jessica Jangl Relationships> Breakupl Aug 30, 2010

    10 hints to amke for an easier breakup

    By: Tigress Luv, The Breakup Gurul Relationshipsl Mar 28, 2008 lViews: 1,267
    Johnny Wayne

    It is difficult in coping with break up. No matter how hard to cope with break up, your way of thinking can also affect your difficulty of coping. Even if time will only tell that you are healed, patiently wait as time will also heal all the negative feelings inside your heart. Learn How to Ask For Forgiveness Today.

    By: Johnny Waynel Relationships> Breakupl Sep 22, 2010

    Whenever a breakup occurred, it will be natural that you may have problem coping with a break up. Do not feel ashamed, as there is nothing to be embarrassed about. What is more important for you is to concentrate how to move on with life.

    By: Ingrid Margaretl Relationships> Breakupl Aug 23, 2010

    Want to know how to fix a relationship, save your marriage and cope with a breakup? Then you've come to the right place. Because we've created a set of FREE resources to help repair or fix relationships in trouble.

    By: DigiEdgel Relationshipsl Jan 13, 2011
    H. L. Archer

    The breakup was bad, but now that you have settled down you are wondering how you can get your ex boyfriend back. With these vital tips betting your ex back can be easy.

    By: H. L. Archerl Relationships> Breakupl May 28, 2012

    Does your ex however have emotions towards you? Following a split, it may be tough to know. In one instance you may find out your ex becoming flirty and loving and also the following instance he/she won't even grant you an opportunity to devote time with them.

    By: Laura Marial Relationships> Breakupl May 26, 2012
    H. L. Archer

    When you have lost the man you love, you miss him and long to have him back. You think if you could only make him feel the way you are feeling, he will come running back. Learn how easy you can make this happen.

    By: H. L. Archerl Relationships> Breakupl May 25, 2012

    If you have recently gone through a bad break up it is natural to want to text your ex back especially if you discover that you still have feelings for her. It is necessary though that you make sure that you do not communicate with her in a way that will scare her away or you will end up suffering the consequences of losing her for good.

    By: Laura Marial Relationships> Breakupl May 25, 2012

    However justified you feel in arguing in your relationships, it will not solve your problems or bring you closer to your man. Arguing in relationships will only stop when you stop blaming and start to take responsibility for how you feel. Bring back the peace and harmony in your life and relationships with this advice.

    By: Lucy O'Brienl Relationships> Breakupl May 25, 2012

    If you aren't using an all in one printer just yet, you are in for a pleasant surprise. The quality of print surpassed my expectations. I thought you could only get that kind of quality from a dedicated printer. But I was wrong. The great advantage of the all in one printer is its multi function capability.

    By: Philipl Computers> Hardwarel Jul 29, 2011

    The best electric toaster ovens are given this description because users who have bought the product decide they are worthy of being called the best product. Nothing is better than reading about user experience in determining which is the best item. That is from a prospective buyers point of view.

    By: Philipl Home and Family> Accessoriesl Jul 28, 2011

    Perhaps you are thinking about buying a bread maker machine? If you already possess one, clearly this question is not aimed at you. But if you have not yet discovered the delights of baking your own bread, then this is definitely for you. Bread maker machines can be a real time saver.

    By: Philipl Health> Nutritionl Apr 19, 2011

    Snoring cures are readily available, which is good news for sufferers. The problem is if you suffer from snoring and you want to find a cure for the condition you have to select the right treatment. In other words you first have to find out what is causing your snoring before you look for a cure. Otherwise you will be wasting your time and your money.

    By: Philipl Health> Sleepl Jan 03, 2011

    There comes a time in everyone's golfing career when you decide to improve your golf game and reduce your handicap. That almost always means you need to add more distance to your golf shots, especially with the driver. This article is about some of the ways of adding extra yards to those drives, and later I will show you where you can learn these skills, and others that are not mentioned here.

    By: Philipl Sports and Fitness> Golfl Oct 03, 2010

    Discuss this Article

    Author Box
    Articles Categories
    All Categories
    Quantcast