Does My Ex Boyfriend Still Love Me Quiz

Does he still have feelings for you?  It's never easy to know, is it?  When your boyfriend broke up with you he became cold, clinical, and very guarded about his emotions.  Yet if you want to get him back, you need to know exactly where you stand.

Below are some questions that will help determine whether or not your exboyfriend is still in love with you.  Answer them honestly to see where you stand, but don't forget to check out the Full 18 Question Version of the famous Does My Ex Boyfriend Still Love Me Quiz.

Which Phrase Best Describes The Way Your Boyfriend Broke Up With You

a) "I think we just need some time apart from each other."
b) "We don't work as a couple anymore.  We have different interests."
c) "I can't deal with all the fighting and arguing - we just don't get along."
d) "I think we'd both be better off dating some else more compatible."

Answer A) When your boyfriend wants to take 'time off' from the relationship it's both good and bad.  The bad news is he may be thinking about getting together with another girl.  If he has another person in mind, he could be using this excuse as a way to date that person while still keeping you hanging on.

The good news however, is that your ex didn't ask for a breakup... he only wanted a break.  This means he still feels attachments, and doesn't want to lose you for good.  There are ways of very quickly turning this situation around on your ex boyfriend, and putting him in the position where he stands to lose you.

Answer B) A boyfriend who claims incompatibility as the reason for breaking up may be looking to see where you stand.  He wants to hear you disagree with him, telling him that yes, you are indeed compatible.  But at the same time, he may also be looking to change you.  Don't let your boyfriend use a potential breakup as leverage to get you to "promise to change" or anything silly like that.

Answer C) It's kind of funny, but fighting within a relationship isn't always a bad thing.  It indicates passion, intensity, and the fact that you both still care.  After all, if you didn't care, you wouldn't really be fighting in the first place... you'd be walking away from each other.

Nonsense fighting however, is totally unhealthy.  Try to sit down and determine what your last five major fights have been about.  If they were for silly or immature reasons, it's time to ditch that mindset and move your relationship to a higher (and more mature) level.

Answer D) This is a dangerous answer, mainly because your boyfriend could already be ready to see other people.  If you think this is the case, ask him.  Tell him to be honest.  In most cases he will, mainly because he knows you'll see him with this other girl soon enough.  Don't be combatitive however, or you'll drive him into silence.

It's hard to stop an ex from seeing someone else, but there are ways of still saving your relationship.  By playing upon his existing emotional bonds to you, you can draw your ex back into loving you again.  This needs to be done using instant reversal techniques, and it needs to be done quickly.

What Kind of Contact Have You Had With Your Ex Boyfriend?

a) No contact at all yet - he seems to be ignoring me.
b) I've left messages for my ex and he's called me back
c) He's called to see how I was doing, and that's about it
d) A few weeks went by, but eventually my ex contacted me

Answer A) Immediately after the breakup, no contact is a good thing.  It's a necessary part of missing each other, and it can help get your boyfriend back.  That said, if it's been six or seven weeks and he hasn't contacted you yet, it's time to make some moves.  Start learning the best reinsertion techniques for getting back into your exboyfriend's head again.

Answer B) You shouldn't be calling your ex in the initial stages of the breakup.  Calling and leaving messages isn't necessarily a good idea either.  If your ex isn't initiating contact but is only responding to you, you may need to switch up tactics.  There are lots of ways to get your ex to call you that don't involve calling him first.

Answer C) The sooner your ex calls you after breaking up, the bigger the signs he still loves you.  Even if he's just doing it under the guise of "checking up", your ex is feeling the loneliness of detachment, and may even be missing you more than you know.

Answer D) Taking time apart can really put things in perspective for both you and your ex boyfriend, especially if your relationship ended harshly.  As weeks go by without contact, you'll both tend to cool off.  You'll also both start missing each other, and forgetting what it was you fought about so much in the first place.  An ex who calls or contacts you at this point may be looking to get back together again.