Don't Make these breakup mistakes!

Breakup Mistakes - Don't make these mistakes!

So you have been dumped.....and you want him back!  This is a crucial time; you can either get back together or lose him forever.  What you say and do now at this moment is going to set you up to reconcile or not.  As a woman, you will see things differently than he will.  He reacts and perceives things much differently than you.  What you think will help will likely make things worse.  

If you want to salvage this and give yourself a chance at reconciling, you need to make sure you don't make bad breakup mistakes.  What you may feel on impulse to do, I will guarantee it will not help you but hurt your effort to reconcile.  Do not let your emotions dictate your actions at this point.  Think with your head.

It is best to have help with someone that understands breakups and what is going on in the man's head post breakup (no his best friend doesn't have the answers).  You need a professional that really knows how to fix this. 

I have been a relationship coach for many years, and have a thorough understanding of what happens during a breakup.  The breakup mistakes are the sometimes too big to overcome.  It is not the breakup that makes reconciling impossible.  It is the breakup mistakes that you make.   

Please avoid making the big one, which is having a big fight with him.  Just know, nothing will seal the breakup for good as a big fight.  There are many other mistakes that you can make that will definitely hurt chances of reconciliation.  Take Care and not making these mistakes.    

 Here is what not to do:

• 1. Call him and try to talk back him back into the relationship.
• 2. Cry and say how miserable you are without him.
• 3. Tell him you miss him, love him and can't live without him.
• 4. Write him long emails or leave long voicemails wanting him to help you understand why.
• 5. Recruit friends or family to help or talk to him.
• 6. Try and make him jealous.
• 7. Call him, text him, email him or leave voicemail in the first month post breakup.

The process of reconciliation is a dance one step at a time.  One false set may take you off the path you want to be on or may kill chances of reconciling.  Tread careful.  It is best to seek help.  Breakup and Reuniting Expert that coaches you is likely the best bet.  All situations are different and need special handling to the specific dynamics of the couple.   It is best to have experienced professional guiding you.

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Dee, Love Expert, Reuniting Guru, Coach and Master Goddess .