To get him back, or to get her back, read The Magic of Making Up and learn more about YOUR situation. You'll Find THE magic!
You see it all over the Internet. Women are saying “I want to get him back”, and men are saying, “I want to get her back”. The you read about The Magic Of Making Up and you wonder what the trick is – what makes it work and what is this “magic” business?
To get him back, or to get her back you have to know what happened to breakup the relationship in the first place. In addition, you also need to know what CREATED the relationship in the first place. Meaning, what attracted you to him or what attracted you to her when you first met. Now, don't tell me a nice butt or pretty eyes – those last only for a very short time. Figure out what it was that attracted the two of you to each other on a more emotional level.
Now – what changed? Not WHO changed – but “what”. People always change – they SHOULD change – or they become stagnant and boring. Relationship are, or should be, constantly, evolving.
OK, so now you know what attracted you to your ex in the beginning of the relationship and what caused the relationship breakup. You also know what changed within the relationship – what is different now than when you first met. The next step is to figure out is there is anything you can do to get him back – or to get her back.
The Magic of Making Up ebook contains many different scenarios for ra elationship breakup so these next steps are very generic and to get a true sense of what you need to do I suggest reading the book.
Step #1
Time: I've said it before and I'll say it again in order to get him back (or to get her back) you need to take the time away from each other that is necessary to resolve and answer the questions above.
Step #2
Become friends. Friendship is one of the mainstays of any good relationship. If your ex isn't your friend – then what is he (or she)? Friendships contain almost all the qualities that love requires – honesty, trust, accord, the ability to listen, laughter, openness to change, acceptance, flexibility and appreciation. Friends argue – but don't fight, friends support each other during times of change. Friends never lie to each other (except about surprise birthday parties) and friends LISTEN to each other – really listen.
Step #3
To get him back – or to get her back, the third step will be to decide if this is truly what both of you want. If you are sure that you do then you need to communicate your desires and feelings. If your ex is in agreement then take it slowly. Learn all over what is meant about the Magic of Love and how wonderful is the Magic of Making Up. (No “Tricks” Necessary)
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