"How Do I Get My Man Back?" Advice from a Girl That's Been Through It

There is nothing worse than sitting around your house after a breakup obsessing about an ex. Yes I'm sure that you still love him, and I'm guessing you have a million questions. Why did this happen? Does he still love me? What can I do to get him back? I've been there as well, and let me tell you it isn't fun. I don't have all the answers for you, but I do know how to ease the pain. And if you're serious about getting your man back I can help you.

The first thing you need to realize is that you broke up for a reason, somewhere along the line something happened and your relationship went down in flames. Just because your relationship is melted and smoldering that doesn't mean it's over, however it does mean you need to give it some time to cool off. The worst thing you can do after a breakup is obsess about your ex, hover around the phone, and push that person even further away. Here's a great tactic: if you can't control yourself, rip the battery out of your phone and ask someone to hide it from you, at least for a little while so you can calm down!

After things have cooled down a bit and you're ready to start communicating with your ex again, keep it simple. Avoid talking about the relationship. I'm sure that when the two of you feel in love it wasn't because you were talking about plans, kids, and marriage. These things will come later, but the most important thing is to fall in love all over again. If there was any romantic bond between the two of you, it can come back. Having casual dates together and sharing laughter again is what's going to mend the relationship.

Communication is one of the best tools a healthy relationship has, so don't forget about that when things start working out again. Avoid fights by talking, and be sure to listen to each other. Men need to feel needed and appreciated in a relationship. As long as they have a purpose they will put effort into a relationship.

I know that things are rough right now, trust me I've been there. But thanks to good friends and good relationship advice I was able to pull myself up out of the gutter and fix my marriage. I wouldn't be wasting your time if I didn't think these tactics would work. I wish I had more time to lay things out for you, but I've got to get back to work.

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