How to Get My Ex To Return My Call - The Simple Secret That Works

It sounds hard to believe but there are simple words that can cast a near magic spell over your ex and make them feel compelled to return your phone call or text message quickly, without realising that you have woven your magic over them.

How to get your ex to return your call when this is the last thing they may currently want to do is one of the most common questions pondered by someone in your position; someone who longs for a return of the intimacy and love that slipped away from the relationship. Maybe it was just a short term thing or maybe a build up of resentment, no matter, the situation may be easily recoverable.
So how do you get your ex to respond positively to your phone call or text in such a fraught situation?

Before you move on to find the secret, it is worth knowing that the following technique should be used as part of an overall strategy and indeed may actually damage your relationship even more that if they did not return your call. If this is all beginning to sound a bit clinical, don’t worry as your ex will never suspect that you are striving for something that will greatly benefit you both.

At this point, it is worth mentioning the techniques that should never be used as they will almost certainly place you at an awful psychological disadvantage from which it may be impossible to recover. So before we get onto what does, let’s check what out some common ploys which do not work:

Emergency – Trying to get your ex to call your you back on some pretence will back fire on you when the "emergency" turns out to be false or negligible to them, and will guarantee resentment sets in as you have now shown that you cannot be trusted and this will be very difficult to recover from.

Needy - Though almost everyone has an overwhelming desire to express to their ex that they cannot live without them, there is no point in telling them that as it will come across weak.
There are many examples of these type of calls and you should now be able to see what is not going to work without more examples.

Now for the big secret. There are two powerful human forces you can use and they are simply:

CURIOUSITY and SELF INTEREST

Taken separately they will work but the secret is to combine the two into a very powerful and compelling cocktail to get your ex to want to call you in a positive frame of mind and without delay.
So the simple message to rescue your relationship could be:

"Hi Miranda it’s Kyle. I wanted to let you know I sincerely appreciate what you did for me. Please call me as I want to thank you in person."

Can you see how this simple message uses BOTH curiosity and self-interest to make the relationship saving return call irresistible?
The simplicity is astounding and the psychological effect is all-powerful.
That’s all there is to it, no preamble or padding, just a powerful message that will reach its target every time. Your ex will not be able to resist making that return call with the thought "What did I do to receive the appreciation" running through their head and building the positive image of you.

Some important points, make sure that your voice is friendly and you run the words without a large pause between the opening greeting and the power part of the message. However a small pause between the "appreciate" and "call me" parts may help the acceptance process and make the return call more certain.OK that’s the message but how do you set up the appreciation. The method to use is appreciation for a small thing they have done for you, but it MUST be plausible and not sound like something you have plucked out in desperation.

It is of the utmost importance that you have an underlying strategy in which to place this powerful technique. If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy when your ex calls back, and they will, you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly. What most people do not realise is that what you do before, during and after you get them to successfully return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call. If someone called you up and it was to change the next chapter of your life for the better you would want to be prepared?