How To Get Over A Man Who Doesn't Love You (3 Effective Tips To Heal Your Heart)

Learning how to get over a man who doesn't love you is a real problem in many women's lives. After all, unrequited love is extremely painful. You gave your heart to him hoping that he would love and treasure you, but he didn't.

Deep down inside, you realize that you deserve to be treated better than this, which is why you want to move on with your life. Good for you girl! Here are 3 effective tips you can use to heal your broken heart...

Tip #1: Get Angry.

Getting angry is really the first step to getting over a man who doesn't love you. Before that, all you feel is

1. "Woe is me"
2. "Am I not good enough for him?"
3. "Why me?"
4. "I just want someone who loves me"
5. I feel so sad and hurt
6. I am depressed, etc.

This can become a vicious cycle. So my advice to you to break out of this cycle, is to get angry and use that energy to transform your life.

How to get angry?

Start by recognizing and acknowledging that...

1. You are a person who is worthy of love;
2. You are a precious woman on this planet;
3. You would have treated someone who was as nice to you, as you were to him, with more care, love, appreciation and respect;
4. Nobody in this world has the right to trample all over your feelings;
5. If any guy treated your girlfriend or daughter or mother this way, you would get very angry at him too;
6. It's time to stop asking for other people to love you, and demand that they prove themselves worthy of your love and attention instead!

Dig deep and be loving towards yourself. Ask the people who truly care about you whether they feel angry or protective about how you've been treated by this man - whom you invested your time, love, feelings, care and energy to.

Tip #2: Decide That You Are Worth Loving And There Is Somebody Out There Who Is Right For You.

A huge step towards getting over a man who doesn't love you is to decide that you are worth loving. And that if he doesn't see how good you are, it's his loss! Anyone would be lucky to be with you!

One way to start seeing your own self-worth is to start a journal and write things that you like about yourself inside. Also, write about

• What makes you lovable?
• What makes you a good partner in a relationship?
• What can and do you contribute to a romantic relationship?
• What is so fun about you?
• What makes you unique?
• What do you want to be appreciated for?

Rediscover the gentle and lovable side of you and keep telling yourself that "I am worthy of love. I am loving, lovable and loved!"

Once you have a better grasp of what a special and precious being you are, it's time to get clear and start asking the Universe to send you a man that is exactly right for you!

How to ask for a great man who loves you?

Write down a list of characteristics you want in a guy, and read through it often. Add items as and when you like. This is a really fun game. Treat it like you are ordering a customized man for yourself. Just allow yourself to be playful and ask for whatever you want.

Be extremely specific and even picky because if you are willing to ask for it, the Universe will truly send him to you. Believe it! I did it and it worked for me. Please have faith and do this exercise in the spirit of fun.

Go through your day looking for specific behaviors in men that you admire and appreciate. For example,

1. Carries the bags for his woman
2. Puts his arms around my shoulders when we walk on the streets
3. Holds my hand tightly like he doesn't want to ever let me go
4. Looks intensely at me when we are sitting across each other
5. Is kind to the people who serve his food
6. Appreciates me even more than I appreciate him
7. etc...

You can be inspired to include more desirable qualities in your customized man even when you watch movies. Really let go and have fun with this game!

Tip #3: Start Learning How To Love Yourself More!

I firmly believe that people can only love you as much as you love yourself. So, if the people around you aren't treating you well, it's probably because you are not treating yourself well too.

Really think about it: How can you treat yourself better today? Is there something you've been wanting to do but you've been putting it off because you don't have enough time, not enough money, etc?

Cast all those excuses aside and do something small that will make you smile. For example,

• buy yourself your favorite flowers
• get a pedicure
• drink a pretty beverage that makes you feel classy and sophisticated
• wear your best dress and take yourself out for dinner at your favorite restaurant
• play in the rain

When you show yourself that you don't need anyone else to make you happy, you will realize that it's not such a big deal that someone else doesn't choose to love you anymore. Love comes in many forms and love is all around you if you will just notice it, and let it in.

Interestingly enough, the old saying: "When one door closes, another one opens", is true. Trust that all of this is happening for your highest good, and that learning how to get over a man who doesn't love you may very well be one of the best things that ever happened to you. I wish you well and I wish you love. There is great love here for you. Decide to believe it.