How to Tell If He's the One

There's a secret that very few women know…

The unlucky ones who don't realize this end up pursuing a man who refuses to commit or getting stuck in one unhappy relationship after another.

They can't figure out why the man they love so much doesn't feel the same way. They shower love on him in 1001 ways. They‘re always there for him, supporting him as much as they can. They lay their heart on the line for him.

And it inevitably ends in disaster when he turns a cold shoulder and leaves.

Are men just ungrateful brutes who can't recognize the value of a woman's gift of Love?

Do they not see when a woman is giving a man everything she has?

How can they turn their back on someone who loves them like that?

ARE YOU STRONG ENOUGH FOR THE TRUTH?

I'm going to tell you a secret that will explain everything, but I must warn you first…

It takes a strong woman to understand this.

Most women don't want to hear it, so they close their ears to the truth.

There's no shame in self-deception. If you want to continue believing that the person you love should love you back, that's your choice. It's not my job to make you unhappy by taking away one of your most cherished beliefs.

After all, if we women ran the world, we'd make sure that EVERYONE lived their lives based on love. We'd make it a policy that people should respect and appreciate the love they're given.

But sadly, in this world, you can love someone so deeply that you're willing to give your LIFE for him … and he can still turn and walk away from you.

How can that be? How can a man not respond to your feelings for him? How can he be so cold and callous?

The answer is very simple.

It's because he's not The One for you.

NOT EVERY MAN YOU LOVE IS THE ONE

There is a B-I-G difference between a man you love and The One.

When you fall in love with a man...

...You try to make things happen. You try to get him to ask you out on a date, or you try to get him into bed, or you try to get him to commit. It takes a lot of work, but you really want this man and you're willing to do whatever it takes.

When you fall in love with The One...

...You feel secure, because it‘s all happening so naturally. It as if this were meant to be. You trust the process. You're content to let life unfold as it will. It feels really, really good to feel this safe with someone.

When you fall in love with a man...

...You're never sure what he thinks. You're always thinking ahead and trying to guess what will attract and interest him. You want to be the kind of woman that will capture his heart. It makes you feel good to make him want you.

When you fall in love with The One...

...You feel so relaxed in his company that it's like being with a best friend who‘s known you all your life. If you believed in such things, you‘d say you recognized each other from a previous life. There's nothing you need to hide, nothing you need to pretend to be. Although your relationship may not feel as exciting as previous relationships, it feels like it fits you, like an old cotton sweatshirt worn thin from wear.

When you fall in love with a man...

...Your relationship will have its problems and eventually come to an end. Maybe you'll end it, or maybe he will. Your heart will break, and for a while you may be desperate to get him back. But after a time, your heart will heal, and you will meet someone new.

You don't have to worry about never loving again. Your heart is made to love; it could no more stop loving than your eyes could stop seeing.

When you fall in love with the One...

...You'll know it because you won't break up. You'll settle into life together with such ease and simplicity that you wondered why it was ever hard. Months will pass, and it will be your one-year anniversary before you know it. When you look at him, you'll know you're home.

Sometimes, you'll remember how hard you tried to make things work with other guys, and you'll be glad that things didn't work out. If you'd have stayed with those other guys, you wouldn't have met him. And you never would have felt this happy, content, and true to yourself.

HOW LOVE REALLY WORKS

Once you understand this, you will see that having feelings for a man -- no matter how strong they are -- doesn't entitle you to a long-term relationship with him.

If he's not The One for you -- if he's just a man you've fallen in love with -- then there's nothing you can do to keep him with you. He's not meant to be yours, and you're not meant to be his.

Here is the TRUTH about how love works…

In life, you will love many men. You'll have many relationships, and each will teach you an important lesson.

But not every relationship will fit you like a glove fits your hand.

Those ill-fitting relationships will end -- indeed, must end -- so that your heart will be free to meet someone new.

Each time you love, you get stronger. Each time you lose a man you love, you get stronger. Each time you get stronger, you get closer to being the sort of person who'll attract the best possible mate for you, your ultimate soulmate, the one destined for you in this lifetime.

That means that each and every break-up actually plays an important role in your evolution as a person.

Breaking up with the wrong man actually helps you get closer to meeting the right man!

Think about it: how can you meet The One if you're stuck with the wrong person or if you're still hung up over your ex?

This is the secret that can change everything:

You don't have to worry about whether a man is The One or not.

If he truly is The One, you will stay together, and it will flow easily and naturally with very little effort on your part.

If he is not The One, your relationship will end no matter how much work you put into it.

Isn't that amazing?

You can stop worrying and start enjoying life! Accept that you are going to fall in love more than once and stop fearing loss. You won't lose the man who matters most. You can never lose true love.