I Miss My Ex Boyfriend - How You Can Get Over The Pain

You’ve been dumped by your ex and you are feeling very lonely, as there is a part of you that has gone with him and you miss his presence.  When you are thinking “I miss my ex boyfriend,” read this article which sets out how you can get over the pain.   You have to go through two completely separate stages before you can get back to being a happy and independent person.

Firstly you have to be certain that you cannot get back with him.  You will never get over the pain he caused you if you can never stop thinking that he will have you back in the future.

Arrange to exchange all personal affairs and pay off any money you owe each other as soon as possible.  Stop absolutely all contact with him for the time being while you look after yourself and sort your emotions out.  If later you are able to stay friends, all well and good; don’t worry about this now. 

When you feel the solitude, why not sit down and write about it.  If poems are for you, write one about how you are feeling.  If writing poems isn’t for you, write a letter addressed to him describing your feelings and your thoughts.   However, don’t send it to him but destroy it.  This will help you come to terms with the fact that the romance is closed and that now you have to start a new stage in your life.  .

When you feel that the initial shock is behind you, get ready to move into the second stage. Avoid sitting at home on your own looking at the ceiling and going over in your mind all the finer points of the broken relationship; it is not this that will help heal your suffering.      You should make use of your new found liberty to prepare your future as a single person.  You want to work on your self confidence and how other people see you.

Get back to seeing old girlfriends and family. It will help you to enjoy yourself and get you ready for what awaits you in the future. 

Getting out and enjoying yourself with others is the best remedy getting over a break up and helping you forget the past and look to the future with confidence.  Find some new activities that interest you.   With them will come new friends; your time will be occupied and you will stop thinking about your ex boyfriend.  

As soon as you feel ready and when the occasion comes you should get out dating again.  You certainly are very unlikely to find the perfect person first time round but treat it as part of your rehabilitation.  As you go out dating more and more men, your self esteem will be boosted; eventually you will find someone to whom you are attracted.  Then we will not be hearing you, “I miss my ex boyfriend.”

Joe Bisley

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