I Miss My Ex GirlFriend, But Now I’m Over It

Posted: Sep 26, 2009 |Comments: 0 |

If you find that you are sitting around saying to yourself, “I miss my ex girlfriend” you will need to find some way to get on with your life.  A break up is hard on both parties.  You must find a way to fight through the inevitable feelings of depression.  Here are some steps that you can use to move forward with your life.

First you will need to make peace with the fact that the relationship is over.  You need to get some type of closure in the relationship for yourself.  One thing that you can do is to acknowledge to yourself that the relationship is over.  Say it out loud so that it is real to you.  Once you acknowledge to yourself that the relationship is over then you can move on and begin the healing process.

Next you need to physically end the relationship.  You can accomplish this by giving her back all of her stuff, and getting your things back from her.  Make sure that you recover and return everything.  This way you can do it all at once one time and be done with it.  You will successfully remove all physical traces of your ex from your life.  If you have any pictures or special items that you received from her put them in a box for later when  you are better able to deal with seeing them.

Avoid going to places that you know she will be for awhile until you are completely over her.  Find new places to hang out and enjoy yourself for awhile.  This may actually be a good thing, because you will be able to experience new things and meet new people.

The sooner you get back in the saddle and start dating again the better.  Go out on dates with other people and have fun.  Go out with several women don’t limit yourself exclusively to just one person right away.

You’ll see that eventually the pain of your breakup will ease and become bearable.

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