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I'M Still In Love With My Ex But My Ex May Not Be!

The problem with breakups is oftentimes, it is just one party who wants it and the other stays still in love.  We could see a cockeyed situation here.  It is likely that your ex has stopped loving you.  It could also be possible that she has still some feelings left for you.  A lot of couples stay in love with each other even after the breakup.

If you truly still love your ex, you can only hope that she can still love you back.  However, it is not as easy to attempt reconciliation.  There were reasons for deciding to separate.  Regardless if this was instigated by your ex, you have to delve into the given reasons and you might see that the separation was actually good for both of you.  Give yourself sometime before doing anything to attempt reviving the broken relationship.

Even both of you agreed to the breakup, you find yourself still in love with your ex.  So why did you allow the breakup to happen?  It is crucial for you to understand the real reasons  for deciding to separate.  Immediately, you might say that the breakup was a mistake.  But after some analysis you might be able to accept that although you still love your ex, it will be better to just love her from a distance than attempt to reconcile.

Sometime after the breakup, your ex showed signs of also wanting to get back together. Do not jump right into it.  Unless you are able to sort out your differences that caused the first breakup, then the euphoria of being back together could easily dissipate in a few months' time and then you will be stuck with in same problem.

Just as you mutually agreed to break up, now you have mutually agreed to reconcile.  The sweetness of the honeymoon period will be there and you both agreed that you did well in salvaging the relationship from what could have been a terrible mistake.  But if your original problems were just swept under the rug and not dealt with before the reconciliation, it will just be a matter of time before they resurface and the relationship might well be on its way to breakup part 2.

How can you prevent the breakup the second time around?  The only solution is to deal with your original problems first whether through counseling or by some other means you believe will work for you. Both of you are saying "I'm still in love my ex and want him or her back."  You most probably can, but you have to put a lot of work to maintain it.

Kenneth Dean

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