My Husband Doesn't Want To Have Sex Because I'm Fat

Answer the following questions below to help determine whether your marriage can be saved or if your husband is cheating on you. Remember, you clicked on this article and in order for this to work you need to please get a pen and paper, and answer this questionnaire. This will lead you in the right direction. Make two columns, 1A and the second as 2B

Section 1A

1.) My husband says I'm fat.

(usually, this will mean that you husband is constantly making comments your weight and usually starts out as little jokes that progress into something more serious.)

A.) Yes

B.) No

2.) My husband doesn't have sex with me because I'm fat.

(Your husband may not come out and say it, but he will come up with excuses other than your weight being an issue to not have sex with you.)

A.) Yes

B.) No

3.) My husband is embarrassed because I'm fat.

(This will mean something like how you have noticed that your husband does not want to go out into the public with you or will find an excuse to not be around you in public places.)

A.) Yes

B.) No

4.) My husband gets angry easily.

(You've noticed that your husband gets angry with you easily or simple or for dumb reasons)

A.) Yes

B.) No

5.) My husband is always yelling at me.

(Usually what happens here is when your husband has lost interest in speaking to you and does not want to be around you so he will try and pick fights with you to have a reason to leave the house. Careful* sometimes, this may be an early warning sign that your husband is cheating on you. He will yell or start a fight to have a reason to leave the house to go see his mistress.)

A.) Yes

B.) No

6.) My husband makes comments about my weight.

(Many times you may find your husband making subtle comments about your weight or suggest joining a weight loss organization. Sometimes, if he really cares, he will be supportive and may mention that the two of you join a fitness program rather than criticize you.)

A.) Yes

B.) No

7.) My husband makes comments about what I eat.

(Your husband will make comments about what you eat by saying, "you're still eating" or "you're going to eat that?".

A.) Yes

B.) No

8.) My husband doesn't show affection to me anymore.

(Your husband doesn't show affection to you anymore because he's turned off by you. He's not truly in love with you anymore and something to highly consider is that he may seem or interested in someone else.)

A.) Yes

B.) No

9.) My husband keeps his distance from you at grocery stores.

(Your husband keeps his distance from you in public because he feels embarrassed by you. Many times he is looking wanting the attention of other women.)

A.) Yes

B.) No

Second Column

Section 2B

1.) My husband has a new e-mail address and didn't tell me about it.

(Sometimes, when something like this happens when things are going bad in your relationship, this is the beginning part of a tell-tale sign of a cheating spouse.)

A.) Yes

B.) No

2.) My husband has condoms and we don't have sex.

(Your husband has no reason to be carrying condoms if the two of you aren't having sex period.)

A.) Yes

B.) No

3.) He deletes all of his incoming calls and e-mails.

(It takes no rocket scientist to figure out that your husband is hiding or keeping something deep from you.)

A.) Yes

B.) No

4.) When the two of you get into big fights or arguments, does your husband mention divorce?

(Your husband may bring up divorce in your arguments because he is seeing or has found another woman.)

A.) Yes

B.) No

5.) My husband has become violent with me.

(He starts becoming violent with you because he just does not care about you or he hates you now. If there is another woman in his life, then all he is thinking about is her and you are the bad guy in his way.)

A.) Yes

B.) No

6.) My husband comes home late from work now.

(Your husband is either seeing another woman after work or is at the Japanese Steak House eating sushi.)

A.) Yes

B.) No

7.) My husband doesn't answer his phone when I call.

(Your husband is with another woman or is talking about how big the transmission I his car is)

A.) Yes

B.) No

8.) You found porn on your husband computer.

(Your husband is obvious not in love with you anymore and not interested in your body.)

A.) Yes

B.) No

9.) Your husband keeps his cell phone on his nightstand when he goes to sleep.

(He is worried that he will receive an unwelcome late night phone call from some woman or he is a doctor waiting for a call to perform a late night surgery you figure it out.)

A.) Yes

B.) No

10) My husband asked if it was ok to love two people in a relationship.

(He is fishing for answers and wants to see your reactions.)

A.) Yes

B.) No

11.) My gut feeling tells me my husband is cheating on me.

(Usually, if your gut feeling tells you something, go with it. Many times, your gut feeling is right though your husband's gut feeling may mean something else.)

A.) Yes

B.) No

If you answered yes to more than 4 questions in Section 1A and 5 questions in Section 2B of the questions listed above, you MUST refer below.  Whether you are able to save your marriage or find out if your husband is cheating on you, please share this information with a friend or family member that may benefit from this.