Stressed by Your Job Interview? How to Stay Calm During Your Job Interview So You Can Be at Your Best

Posted: Oct 07, 2009 |Comments: 0 |

Are you nervous about your upcoming job interview? You're not alone. Just about everybody is nervous when they're being scrutinized and when so much depends on the outcome. So yes, a job interview can be a high stress affair. But it doesn't have to be. There are a number of things you can do that will help you stay calm.

For starters, there are a few stress reduction techniques you can do: Deep breathing is one of them. Believe it or not, something as simple as slow, deep breathing can calm you down quite a bit. Another key to peace of mine is keeping things in perspective. Reminding yourself that you have already passed a series of hurdles and your interviewers really want you to succeed. Yes, they do. After all, they only invite winners to an interview.

But you're still nervous. So what can you do?

Let me guess... Let's look at a few things you probably ARE doing that make stress almost inevitable: You worry, and not just the normal garden variety kind of worrying, but you're practicing some serious catastrophic thinking. Chances are that some of the following questions are racing through your head:


1) What if they won't like you?

2) What if they'll laugh at you?

3) What happens if you don't get the answers to their questions right?

4) What if you don't get the job?

5) What if you won't ever get another job?

6) Will anyone ever love you again if you can't get this or any other job?

7) Will you lose your home?

8) What will people think if you don't get the job?

You get the idea. It's impossible to function at your peak when you worry about those things, or even some of them.

What to do? Don't worry about them. Seriously. Your job interview is not the place for those kinds of thoughts. First of all, worrying about things is NOT going to make anything better. The only thing it does is make it hard for you to come across well when it counts most.

So if you absolutely must worry, schedule it for later. You can plan an hour at a coffee shop later where you'll allow yourself to worry to your heart's content.

During the job interview, just listen to each question, and answer it to the best of your ability. If they should ask you a question you cannot answer, just tell them you don't know right now, and would they please ask something else.

Don't forget to breathe, and to remember, it's just a job interview. There will be others. And if you stay focused, chances are you'll do just fine. Stressing, no matter how much you do it, will never help you improve your performance. Especially not in a job interview.

Just one last thing. A little nervousness is okay. It's pretty much expected. So don't worry about being a little nervous. But when your thoughts drift off to catastrophic scenarios, catch yourself and tell yourself, "Later!" For the moment, you have a job to do.

Questions and Answers

Ask
200 Characters left
Rate this Article
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
  • 0 vote(s)
    Feedback
    Print
    Re-Publish
    Source:  http://www.articlesbase.com/careers-articles/stressed-by-your-job-interview-how-to-stay-calm-during-your-job-interview-so-you-can-be-at-your-best-1311616.html

    Article Tags:

    job interview jitters

    ,

    job interview stress

    ,

    nervous about job interview

    ,

    stress relief

    ,

    stay calm

    Teaching English abroad in Vietnam is a unique experience for anyone who seeks to explore a beautiful country with a rich heritage. You may find people who say that it is not difficult to find jobs in Saigon, but the converse is true. It depends on where and how you conduct your search.

    By: John Thomsonl Careersl May 25, 2012

    Thailand is a beautiful country with an expanding opportunity to teachers seeking opportunities to travel and teach. The steady demand for native English speakers means that any confident applicant with basic teaching skills can secure employment without difficulties.

    By: John Thomsonl Careersl May 24, 2012

    Doctor jobs are growing in demand. Canadian research discovered that over four million Canadians lack a family physician Because four million Canadians don't have a family physician, the need for physicians is enormous Provinces throughout Canada are desperate to fill these vacancies.

    By: jaretcxlhal Careersl May 24, 2012

    Although Singapore is an island nation, it has grown to become a modern and efficient first world model country in Asia too. The infrastructure is remarkable and education sector largely successful.

    By: John Thomsonl Careersl May 24, 2012

    Malaysia is a beautiful country with a thriving tourism industry. Like other emerging countries in Asia, the education sector spurs the knowledge-based economy. The education reforms have been instrumental in producing a quality workforce that satisfies the professional demands of various industries.

    By: John Thomsonl Careersl May 24, 2012
    Elisabeth Kuhn

    Are you planning to take the ASVAB test? It's a tough test. Yet if you want to join the military, whether it's the Army, the Navy or the Marines, you won't get around it. Not only that, but the better you do, the better your chances that you get the assignment you want. So what to do? Read on for the two steps you need to have in place to ace your ASVAB test.

    By: Elisabeth Kuhnl Education> Tutoringl Apr 09, 2011
    Elisabeth Kuhn

    Are you trying to get more targeted traffic to your website? There are lots of options, some paid, some free. Read on about two free options that can work very well.

    By: Elisabeth Kuhnl Internet> Internet Marketingl Mar 07, 2011
    Elisabeth Kuhn

    The DePuy ASR XL recall has been getting all the press lately. At the same time, the Zimmer hip replacement recall seems to have dropped off the radar. But if you have a Zimmer Durom Cup implant, you need help too. Read on to find out more.

    By: Elisabeth Kuhnl Law> Personal Injuryl Feb 22, 2011
    Elisabeth Kuhn

    You've been reading about the DePuy Hip Implant Recall and maybe also about the Zimmer Hip Replacement Recall. And yes, you had hip joint replacement surgery and are wondering... Do you need to worry about your own implant being defective? How would you know?

    By: Elisabeth Kuhnl Health> Diseases and Conditionsl Feb 22, 2011 lViews: 109
    Elisabeth Kuhn

    Why do people opt for hip implant surgery? Not all people make that decision at the same time for the same reasons. So you could expect that for people in California, hip recall issues may play out a bit differently than for people in more traditional states with a lesser emphasis on an active outdoorsy lifestyle.

    By: Elisabeth Kuhnl Law> Personal Injuryl Feb 01, 2011

    Discuss this Article

    Author Box
    Articles Categories
    All Categories
    Quantcast