Charming personality and perfect clothes – Winning combination essential for success

Straight men and even some gay men think that all gay men are stereotypical in their style of dressing with flamboyant colours and glitzy accessories and histrionic hand movements and gestures. However, if you meet real gay people, you might not even sense that they are gays and their charming personality will disarm you instantaneously. Women would end up wishing these gays for themselves and straight guys would dream to have their style and charisma.

So what is it that these guys do to have such charming personalities that stereotypical gays and simple straight guys don’t.

These gay men know the secret of winning people, which is in-born in some men and some men cultivate it or learn it over time. We have sourced these secrets for you and now you can successfully woo the gay next door and win him over!

- The first thing that most people notice when they see you is your skin. Make sure you exfoliate your skin and cleanse it regularly to keep it clean and glowing. If you have acne or pockmarks, get rid of them fast.

- Your age is another thing that people take into consideration. For instance, you would want to look mature in a business meeting and younger than usual in dating venues. You cannot certainly change your age but you can downplay some of the effects that age has on others. Go to clothes shop that have sales rep who knows which colours, clothes will make you look younger, and which colours make you look more mature and buy clothes accordingly.

- Your bearing that includes everything from your height to your head movement and body language is what will work wonders or spell a catastrophe depending on your success to carry yourself properly. Though you cannot do much about your height, wearing high-heeled shoes may help you to quite an extent. Be careful about your choice of shoes as loafers and sandals will not carry you far if you want to look respectable and sophisticated. If you nod your head, you will send the wrong signals to the opposite person in terms of perception of authority. Be liberal with your ayes and nays, and if it is a formal meet, strictly restrict to yes and no. Do not grin; smiling to some extent is fine but overdoing it will make the opposite person think you are puny.

- Most people either don’t look into the eyes or just stare! Both can make the opposite person run miles away from you. The latter will give an impression that you are lying and the former will intimidate the opposite person. Eye contact is an art and not rocket science, if you simply restrict to 40% to 60% of eye contact, you will master the art thoroughly.

We all must have heard at least a hundred times ‘he spoke without speaking a single word’ and things like that. Well indeed, it’s true. You can speak without actually saying anything as 55% of communication is non-verbal. It’s about how you say and not what you say.

- Even a highly knowledgeable gay man will appear dull if he does not know how to entice listeners with a captivating speech. You don’t have to be a raconteur, just speak slowly as if each word if important and take short pauses in between sentences evoking interest and curiosity in the listener.

- Last but not the least, your clothes distinguish you and give you a distinct personality of your own. 90% of your body is covered by your clothes. If you don’t practise care in what you wear, you will end up ruining the easiest yet the greatest way to charm a fellow men. Visit as many gay clothes shop and browse for gay clothes online that are apt for disarming anybody from your boss to your new date!