Matthew Ferry is an Author and a coach for conscious business people and executives who are committed to feeling bliss and happiness and using that energy to create a successful life. Life Coaching and being a life coach is his main course of Matthew Ferry.
Many realtors today are not inspired and in action on their dreams. Many realtors, brokers and people in the mortgage industry today feel stuck, frustrated and powerless when it comes to manifesting their dreams. Have you ever heard yourself saying “Some day… when I have X… then I’ll be happy and satisfied.”
There is no “some day.” And living from “someday” will kill your inspiration and your dreams. That’s why I would like to share three critical strategies designed to short-circuit the steps to your own success by getting you inspired and in action today! And guess what. These are market proof. You ready?
After personally coaching over 8200 people I’ve seen that when you feel joy, bliss, happiness and excitement you naturally do what it takes to achieve your dreams. The question is, “How do I feel joy when my life isn’t what I want it to be?” I’ve got three strategies to answer that question.
I have put together the three important and helpful strategies and I am sharing some of my favorites with you here. Are you ready to have a life filled with anticipation, excitement, joy and outstanding results? Good, then let’s get started.
Strategy #1
The first strategy is to write a one-year prophecy letter. It’s time to get out of the past, stop trying to fix yourself, stop fretting over what you are going to do to have more success and happiness. Stop looking at what didn’t work and start prophesizing about your future. You become what you think about. Let’s get your mind focused on what you want and off what isn’t working.
Write a letter as though you had achieved everything you wanted to achieve, dated one year from today. How many buyers and sellers will you close? What will your family life be like? How much money will you make? I’ve done this with thousands of coaching clients and the average person will achieve 65 percent of what they write. So don’t cheat yourself by writing a small and safe prophecy. Be bold and write your letter from the perspective of “What if life was as good as it gets”.
Strategy #2
Counting your blessings each day is essential for explosive growth. The universe is happy to provide for you, as long as you are happy about what you already have. If you are dissatisfied with your current situation, that energy muddles up your intentions. The more dissatisfied you are, the more you receive that which dissatisfies you. Remember, you get what you put out. From gratefulness, you attract wonderful buyers and sellers who are happy to work with you. Here’s what you are going to do to become more grateful and put this power to work for you:
Make a list of 10 things you love about your life. Include anything that works well in your life, anything you like, and all the people you are happy about having in your life. Then add things you are thankful for.
Make a list of 10 things you want to accomplish: your goals, dreams, visions, and aspirations in life.
Once you have the lists, you can begin this discipline. Before you start, take a moment to review both lists. Then, close your eyes and take 10 deep breaths. Hold each breath as long as you can. Then blow it out slowly.
Now that you are in a very powerful, conscious state, mentally review your list of everything that is good. Get really connected with how great it is to have this in your life. Once you have spent some time truly appreciating your life mentally, shift to your list of things you want to accomplish. But keep the feeling of gratitude. First think about how amazing your life is that you have these kinds of objectives. Then start being thankful for each item as if it had already come true, or was already happening or occurring right now. Think about it the same way you thought about the first list. Let your imagination run away with you.
Inspiration Strategy #3
Are you ready to be excited, energized and receive miracle results? The third strategy I want to share is called The Perfect Game. It acknowledges that you are the creator of your experience. It acknowledges that nothing comes to you that your thoughts haven’t attracted. Your dominant thoughts are bringing you exactly what you desire. You just have to get out of the way. Here are the rules to The Perfect Game:
Whatever is offered, take it.
All that you have been thinking about is on its way to you, the moment you think of it. The problem for most of us is that we stop the universe dead in its tracks with our doubts. This discipline of accepting what is offered acknowledges that the universe will deliver whatever we are focused on. Keep remembering that you must detach yourself from the way your visions are supposed to look and turn out.
Whatever is suggested, do it.
Can you feel the adventure your life is becoming by taking on this discipline? You will now begin experiencing the things you have always wanted to experience but have never had the courage to really ask for. The universe can’t wait to deliver on your every desire.
Whatever happens, declare it perfect.
This is the culmination of everything we have been talking about. Go with the flow. You become the calming person in every situation and that is attractive to buyers and sellers. People trust you when you can make anything and everything okay. Playing the Perfect Game does just that.
I challenge you to play this game for the next 30 days. It will blow your mind when you experience how much luck, synchronicity and good fortune will come your way. New clients will seem to come from nowhere, people you’ve been wanting to meet fall in your lap and your dreams start chasing you.
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