3 Red Flags in Dating - 3 Signs That He is Not Into You

Posted: Dec 21, 2009 |Comments: 0 | Views: 305 |

Have you ever gone on a date that you perceived as perfect only for the guy to never call again?

Ever dated a guy for 8 months only for him to tell you that he is just not ready for a relationship?

There are signs very early in every relationship where guys tell us what their intentions are. Often, we are so caught up with the possibilities of new love that we often ignore these signs. How can you determine if a guy is worth your time? Is he on the same page? Let's look at the tell tale signs!

1. His Availability.

People make time for what they want to make time for. Consider yourself. How eager are you to make time for people or tasks that are unpleasant? How fast does your schedule open for Hunky Harry in comparison to Dorky Dave? The same applies when dealing with a man.


If a man has limited availability, that may be a sign that something is going on. If you are dating a man and he can only treat you to lunch, suggest dinner and see how he responds.

2. The way he treats you.

As simple as that sounds, some people ignore this. If a man is disrespectful in the way he approaches or pursues you, it can be a sign that he is ill willed. However, you can show a person that you deserve respect and get better results. For instance, if a man calls you past 10:00 pm and it is his initial call, if you are stern about him calling at a respectable hour that makes a statement. Do not allow distasteful jokes and conversations because it can give the impression that you are open to distasteful and nasty things.

Also consider the way you carry yourself. If you are wearing tight revealing clothing each time you come in contact with this man, you may sending the wrong message. Carry yourself with dignity and respect. Also remember, we teach people how to treat us.

3. His conversation.

Sometimes if we simply listen to what a man says, he tells us everything we want to know. If a man says, "I am not looking for a relationship right now", he means it. Focus on enjoying friendship with him and nothing more. We often hear things than men say and decide that we can change them or perhaps he is not aware of what he is saying. When a man tells you what he wants or doesn't want...LISTEN. You can save yourself allot of heartache and pain.

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