For many guys, dating multiple women seems like a dream come true!
At first it seems like it's lots of fun hanging out with different girls and having a guaranteed supply of sex. Each night you can pick and choose who you want to see.
Bu there is a dark side to dating multiple women...
If you're not careful, it can destroy your life.
When you're dating different women, you're multiplying your risk of something going completely wrong. That's why it's important to know the right way to juggle your dating partners.
So take a look at these 5 rules which can help you prevent a major catastrophe:
1- Be truthful
The first rule for dating multiple women is going to be the hardest. It's simple...
All you have to do is be honest that you're dating multiple women.
Have you ever heard the famous expression: "Hell hath no fury than a woman scorned"? Well the reason I mention this statement it to make you realize that dating multiple women can cause a LOT of problems in your life. If you're lying to women and not telling them that you're dating other girls, then bad things will happen if you're caught.
My advice is to be honest to every woman you're dating. Just explain that you're not ready to settle down and you like to go out with other girls. While some girls won't want date you, they'll at least respect your candid nature.
2- Be in control
Dating multiple women involves a bit of work and effort. When you're out with a different girl every night, you have to make sure you're a master juggler. Now in order to avoid dropping any balls and messing things up, you have to be in complete control of your dating life.
For instance, you should be the one to set up the dates, control where you go and decide when to talk. The reason why you want to control the situation is so you can "pencil in" each girl without being obvious about your dating habits.
3- Set standards
It's a weird psychology, but women are attracted to men who are pre selected by other girls. If you're able to demonstrate that you're a selector instead of the selectee, women will treat you differently from other guys.
So to demonstrate a strong personality you must set a strict code standards in your life and let women know about them. Then if a girl you're dating breaks a rule, you let her know that you won't tolerate her actions. If she's a repeat offender, then you ditch her.
Dating multiple women is about having the freedom to walk away from toxic women who can destroy your life. So set some standards and force women to follow them.
4- Show them respect
Now dating multiple women isn't always about what you want. There are a lot of women who don't mind dating "a player", but they don't appreciated being disrespected.
So no matter what, treat ALL women well and don't make them feel like they're being used. You can do this simply by calling them back, treating them like gold on your date and ensure that each has a chance to go out with you on important nights (Friday & Saturday).
5- Know how to find new girls
Now typically when you've dated multiple women for awhile, you'll have some who transition out of your life. It's a simple truth that some women want to be in a committed relationship or need more from a guy. So be prepared to stop dating some women.
My advice is to remain friendly to the women you've dated. You never know when things might change and you want her back in your life. In addition, she might have cute friends.
Now in addition to being friendly to past girls you've dated, it's also important to find new women to go out with. So always keep your eyes out for new women!
Dating multiple women requires a high level of multi-tasking. If you don't know how to date multiple women, then bad things can happen to you.
All you have to do is follow these 5 rules and you'll find that it's easy to date multiple women. Then you should be able to avoid the complications which can happen.
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