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7 Tips to Use When Approaching a Woman

Why do men find it difficult to approach a woman to get to know her better?  The dating and relationship scene is probably one of the most complicated areas of life that we have as humans.  It is full of men who have the fear of making the first move to get to know the opposite sex, because they feel that their ego could be fractured.  But what these men fail to understand is that you have to commit and make that first move, or the opportunity will pass you by.

I have come up with seven tips that men can reference if they are want to make that first move on the woman of his dreams.  Remember that the woman that you will be approaching is human after all.  They are looking for a respectable, good man to get to know and have fun with.  That being said, lets get to my tips. 

1)      Ditch your entourage.  This takes some of the pressure off you to perform.  Plus you do not want to have your friend witness this attempt if it goes bad.

2)      Step into the restroom and make sure that you look presentable.  When approaching a woman, the first thing that she will inspect in how you look.  Do you have good personal hygiene?  Is your shirt tucked in and are your clothes appropriate for the occasion or location.

3)      Work up the courage.  I really do not see the big deal in all the fuss with the dating scene.  Yeah, woman that you will be approaching is someone that you do not know.  But I think that is what you have going for you.  Succeed, and you get here number for the first date.  Fail, well you probably will not ever see her again.  There really isn’t anything to loss here.

4)      Think about what you are going to say for an introduction.  Do not use a corny first line.  “Hello, how are you tonight. My name is _________, what’s your’s?” will work a majority of the time.

5)      Walk on up to her, and introduce yourself.  Try to hold a conversation with her.  If she participates in the conversation, then she is into you.  But if she seems distant, then she is probably not interested in you.  It is best to cut your losses and bail.  The saying “There are other fish in the sea”, comes to mind.

6)      Keep eye contact.  Nothing says that you think she is boring when you let your eyes wonder around the room when you are having a conversation with her.  And nothing says animal when you let your eyes do the talking all over her body.  Keeping that eye contact is a good way to let her know that you are into her for her and not her body.

7)      Ask for her phone number.  This is an important tip.  You do not want all the work that you have gone through go to waist.

 Approaching the woman for the first time can only be difficult if the man makes it that way.  Failure only comes if you do not try, and success will only come if you do try.  So go ahead and look around and pick a woman, who is alone, and go on over.  You will never know what’s going to happen if you just sit there and wonder about what might be.

Doug Quinn

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