A Man's Secrets to Successful Online Dating

People have taken to online dating like a duck takes to water…because it can work wonders…or, at least, it can work wonders.  That said Women are, in general, terrified of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online, for the simple reason there are too many questions going on in their heads and to top that all the scary things that can happen on which there is no shortage of articles online …and quite frankly they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That’s not only wise but vital.  So what’s a nice guy to do?  You aren’t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo.  You are just a nice guy looking for “the” girl for you. 

You must be patient and do not press her for personal information like her real name her telephone number or her street address. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online.  Don’t try to rush her into meeting face-to-face. She will think you are desperate or a pervert and will not think twice to break off conversation with you. So patience is deffinitely a virtue online.

Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. It is common to exaggerate online and people will indeed tell things which are untrue about themselves including their income, using old photos etc. But remember you are trying to find the right partner for yourself here, not just have a good time fooling around. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit.  Think about it this way, you will want to meet whoever you find interesting, so every thing you declare is going straight on the record, in other words be careful. 

A picture really is worth a thousand words.  Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots.  If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your head. Full body shots can give a better glimpse of a man's personality as against just a smiling face. A full body shot will give away your dressing sense, posture and build, all of which are very important indicators of what a man is. So remember to put at least a few photos of you standing confidently in a good smart attire. 

Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours  and dont get angry or upset if she bring a friend with her.  After all, you have nothing to hide.  You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you.  The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you.