Approaching Women Using Body Language And Eye Contact

Learning to meet women is possibly the most essential part of dating. Why is this? Its simple - if you never learn how to meet women, you will never get a date, have a relationship, have sex or get married. Its like learning to crawl before you learn to walk - learn the art of approaching women and your dating life will have a one hundred percent turn around.

So what are the keys to learning to meet women successfully? Some of the essential components include learning to read the female body language in order to gauge whether or not your approach is likely to be successful, training your own inner game to relay confidence, ways to promote conversation, how to use flirtation to augment attraction - to name a few.

The first key - learning to read the female body language - is especially important and is possibly one of the simplest things to learn. Many men over the years have realized that women tend to say one thing and mean another. This is not necessarily an attempt at deception - in fact, it is generally done out of complete ignorance of the true source of her own feelings. For instance - a woman may say she likes men who are tall. You are only 5'4" - but don't count yourself out. Why does she like tall men? Not necessarily because they have to duck to get in the car. It could be that tall men make her feel safe and protected. At 5'4", can you do the same? Of course you can. Pay attention to her body language to find out what it is she wants.

On great way to get a glimpse of what a woman really wants is to pay attention to her eyes. Want a really simple way to see if a woman is open to an approach? Check out this little golden nugget:

The next time you go out, anywhere, make an effort to make eye contact with every attractive woman you see. I don't mean fleeting eye contact, ducking your head with a nervous guffaw and turning away. Look into her eyes until she returns your gaze. When you have her attention and your eyes are locked, smile and raise your eyebrows at her.

If she smiles back, holds eye contact for a little longer, and looks away in that embarrassed manner that most women do when they start feeling attraction, then keeps looking back at you, guess what? She's open to you meeting her!

On the other hand, if she displays no expression and looks away quickly, or of course displays some other disdainful expression or irritation, you would be wasting your time to approach her and get rejected.

Remember - learning to approach women will skyrocket your dating success, so quit being a wallflower and get out there and meet some girls today!