Are You Feeling Lonely whilst looking for love?

It feels like Love is all around you, or at least it seems to be when you are looking for it. Everywhere you go turn there seem to be couples walking along hand in hand laughing together, kissing or smooching. And there you are, on your own, feeling lonely. Even though you feel this way you are at least looking out for your soul mate.

It is important to keep on looking, and to create expectancy in your own mind that you will of course attract your soul mate.<br><br>What you should watch out for and also prevent, is the feeling of loneliness creeping up and taking over your focus of attention.

The more you focus on feeling lonely the lonelier you become and the less expectancy there is with which to attract love into your life. It is those feelings of loneliness which can all too easily ruin your chance to find love. This happens in a number of ways. First, if you give in to loneliness it is like giving in to chocolate cravings. One bite and the diet is over; you don't;t just stop at the first small bite. You eat the whole chocolate bar, in all too swift sensations of tongue and taste buds! The trail of loneliness is similar in that it leads to ;Instead of going out and to places where you might meet your soul mate, you stay home because you don't want to feel uncomfortable with all the couples who seem to be everywhere these days. And thats the end of the love trail, isn't it? Unless of course, you turn towards your computer to check out some on-line dating sites. And on-line dating is so great for this very reason, as well as other reasons. You can stay in and not go out until you have someone to meet. You can;screen the potential dates first. You can look at their pictures and chat online.

All of this means that when you do go out to meet the person, you are in a positive state of mind; this person has potential! To keep that state of positive expectancy is key. If you do not expect to meet your soul mate you simply won't; instead you will turn a blind eye and just stay at home alone and effectively ensure that you wont find love, whilst wallowing in loneliness in the safety of your own home. How is that? You can't get hurt, but you can't find love either. If you do not go fishing, what chance do you have to catch a fish?

The very thing which makes us feel SAFE and secure is LOVE! Loneliness fights against the search of love. Loneliness is the feeling which needs to be stopped, banned and banished from your sensory awareness and you can do this by not allowing yourself to focus on it; instead you can focus on what makes you feel loved;I am not sure if you have ever heard of the Law Of Attraction. Like attracts Like and our thoughts manifest in to reality. So make sure you are expecting something good!