Are You the Other Love? - Signs That You are Helping Somebody Cheat

We as lovers we rarely think about how we help other people cheat on somebody else with us. The truth of the matter is, whenever there is infidelity in a relationship there must a third person. The other love either knows of the steady partner but has no problem with it or he/she might not be having any idea about a steady relationship. There are signs you can look out for to identify whether your lover is already taken. He might be a married partner to someone else. Your love is in a relationship if he organizes your dates at abnormal times. It is evident if during the weekends and holidays he is never available. Another sign is that his/her mobile phone is always switched off when you are together. If he also puts it in silent mode, get concerned.

Error is to man but if the mistakes are consistent he might be confusing your likes and dislikes with somebody's else. If he/she makes slips of the tongue while remembering things like your favorite meal, movie or TV program it is a sign that he/she is involved somewhere else. He might even be calling another name which he claims belongs to his sibling. You are the other love and a hidden agenda if your lover does not hang out with you around his family members and friends. Another sign is when your partner breaks or postpones plans with little or no explanation. It means that you are a second option and someone else is a number one. In your conversations, do you talk only about the present? There is a red flag if there are no future plans together.

If your lover is usually unavailable when you want to see him/her, there is more than what meets the eye. He meets you during his leisure time only when the other serious lover can excuse him/her. You should not let something pass unnoticed. For instance if you unexpectedly meet his friends and relatives and he does not want to introduce you and instead he hides, you should get concerned. You might be the other lover. Do you hate excuses? I hate them a big deal and i get irritated especially when they are too many. Does your partner has excuses for canceling dates, failing to pick calls, and being where they are not supposed to be? He cannot help it because he is dividing his time for two people. He wants to be available for two people and so he has to work with lies and excuses.

If you identify with most of these statements, there are higher chances that you are helping your lover to cheat on somebody else. You are the other love. After discovering the truth, do whatever you want but remember that if they were cheating on the person they were with at first, they will definitely cheat on you. For the cheaters, infidelity is part of their nature and it does not matter to them who gets cheated or who gets hurt. They do not stray because their first relationship is miserable. If they were they would quit and have a genuine relationship with you.