Asian Guy? Do You Have Problems Dating Other Women?

Posted: Feb 07, 2010 |Comments: 0 | Views: 566 |

Why do Asian guys have a hard time dating other women? It seems this is a problem that only affects Asian men. I see white guy, Asian girl couples all the time, but hardly any Asian guy, white girl couples. Why is it so hard for Asian guys to date women of other races? I learned a lot about why. Read on to find out more.

I think a lot of it is about Asian culture. I mean, we are raised to be polite and friendly. We value getting along and non-confrontation above standing out and getting what is ours. Your average caucassian guy is rude by Asian standards, but he isn't afraid of putting it out there and doing something crazy to get the attention of a girl. We on the other hand are raised to conform, to not stand out in a crowd, if we did, we could be sure of being punished as children. Is it any wonder, most Asian guys act the way they do?


I think there is a lot to be proud of in Asian culture, but I also think the average Asian guy is to rigid and stone faced in social settings. It's a product of social conditioning and also stereotypes and neither help in getting the girl.

White girls may see a guy like that as being cold, distant and aloof. Someone who may seem interesting but who doesn't open up, who isn't willing to share himself and take a chance. Even worse, they may think - 'creep' or 'weirdo' - and stay away and that stings. It's a bad place to be.

I have spent a lot of time really thinking why this problem only affects Asian guys. Why is it so hard for Asian men to date white women or any women of other race?
It’s not the end of the world, it isn’t the final truth. Being Asian is far from a handicap, it’s just cultural background, a history, something to be proud of. In fact, there are Asian guys who have phenomonal success with women – of all races. They would laugh at the suggestions in that study, because THEY KNOW BETTER.
In a new, unique product created by Ryker Koh called Asian Dating Superstars, 13 of the worlds top Asian dating coaches come together to answer ALL the questions Asian guys have about how to transform into a confident, attractive Asian man that women love. They all agree that once Asian men realize that they can be very attractive to women, that is when they automatically become confident and attractive to women.

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