Asian Guys Dating White Girls - Are Stereotypes Holding You Back?

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Asian guys dating white girls -  Are stereotypes holding you back?Asian guys are short, geeky computer nerds who have no balls. Or we are Kung Fu masters fresh of the boat. The media has been shoving these stereotypes down the troaths of the public for far longer than I care to remember. Being a 'model minority' doesn't help many Asian guys when faced with these stereotypes in the dating game. It's a load of crock, but it isn't the end of the world and it certainly doesn't mean that you can get the women you desire. Read on to find out why.

The worst thing about the stereotypes out of Hollywood are that many Asian men come to accept them. They actually believe that being Asian means being quiet, nerdy and not getting the girl. I've seen so many guys who would make great boyfriends just give up and live lives of quiet desperation. Man, that just sucks and it's no way to live.


I've also seen the peer group change in different ways. Some go the whitewashed route and only hang out with white people. Others become very angry and defiant and go the other way and only hang out with other Asians. Both are bad in my opinion if success with women is the goal.

Some things can't be changed. If you are short then you are not going to grow another 3 inches, but you can change the way you walk. You can learn to walk tall. Plenty of Asian guys I have met are short; and they are very succesful with women.

Being Asian isn't the end of the world. It isn't some hurdle to overcome. It's a background, a culture, a hsitory, something to be proud of. In fact, some of the best ladies men I have ever met are Asian. They have phenomonal success with women and they couldn't care less about race. Some of them came from really bad situations. When I listen to some of the stuff they went trough, I get a lot of respect for that and the transformation into confident, charming Asian dating superstars that they have done.

In a new, unique product created by Ryker Koh called Asian Dating Superstars, 13 of the worlds top Asian dating coaches come together to answer ALL the questions Asian guys have about how to transform into a confident, attractive Asian man that women love. They all agree that once Asian men realize that they can be very attractive to women, that is when they automatically become confident and attractive to women.

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    TaraJohnston Sep 16, 2010
    I think the media might have something to do with it. But I think time is changing. Asian men dating white women is becoming more mainstream. I am white, and I met my Asian boyfriend via a website:
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