Ok, so you can strike up a conversation with a strange and beautiful woman. You may have managed to come across witty and confidently during that conversation. The question is: is that going to be enough for her to want to see you again? A better question is "what do you really know about her that makes you want to see her again?"
Rapport is a connection on a personal level. This is not just agreeing with anything she says! Rapport combined with your considerable wit will create that magical thing women refer to as "chemistry." There are many perspectives on how to create rapport. We will briefly touch on some in this article.
The first and most instinctive way to build rapport is finding commonalities. This can apply to anything like your taste in music, movies, food, etc. This keeps the conversation light and allows you to find commonalities.
What if you don't share the same taste in music or anything else? First it can be fun to playfully bust on her and tell her what you like to listen to. The fun of debating about music or what ever topic you choose can be a lot of fun.
You can also relate on an emotional level. The human condition is universal. Say she says a song makes her FEEL a certain way, you can come back and say I feel the same way about another song. Your not pretending to like something you don't but you are relating in a powerful emotional way.
Another great way to build powerful rapport in a very fun way is called conspiracy. This tactic is all about creating something between you that is between just the two of you. Some fun ideas are making up funny nicknames for each other: "I'm calling you (fill in the blank with funny nick name) for now on" You can be funny by creating a secret handshake, or inside jokes.
My personal favorite is to make a funny, sexy, or cocky comment while making a certain face or hand gesture, this way you can be across a crowded bar and make that face or throw up your hands and she laughs because she gets your little inside joke that involves just you and her!
I have saved the best for last; this is some kindred spirit/ girls totally smitten type stuff right here! I have read about the art of cold reading from both the pickup 101 guys and David D, both top guru's in the field of attraction.
Cold reading is what tarot card readers and psychics use to astound people with their intuition about you and your future. You can use a form of cold reading to build serious rapport with women.
First think of how you discuss women with your friends after you walk away. You say things like: "she seemed like a free spirited artistic type" or "she had a tuff exterior but I bet she's a real sensitive girl underneath that attitude." What you should do is make this statement to her, not your friends. Just throw it out there as if making a random observation and you don't really care how she reacts to it.
The terms you use should be just vague enough to make it difficult for her to say your wrong. It is very difficult when you say things like: "you seem to be very out going but you weren't always that way" or "you seem to have a very creative side to you." As you develop your powers of intuition you can even say things like: "you seem to be at a place in your life were you are..." in a sincere way. Nail a statement like this and you will have built an incredible rapport with her.
All right, we could go on forever on this topic but this should be enough to get you some amazing breakthroughs with building rapport with women. So be sure to read up on more about where, when, and how to use these tactics for maximum effect.
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