You see, a common dating idea of offering drink to a woman on a date plays in the mind of maximum men. They think that is the best way to start their conversation when they are present physically. But is that effective? Just give some thoughts to yourself and analyze that you were not the only man in this world that came up with that brilliant idea but 9 in 10 guys have had the exact same idea before you and guess. They still use it as their main common technique of introduction.
Offering drinks to start a conversation or to break the strange silence on dating is not a good idea. Attractive women get approached all the time, and most of the times they get offered a drink from random guys so what is the difference between you and those guys. . Such approach does not make you special; it does not make you stand out and certainly does not give her that gut level emotion called attraction towards you. If you want to become successful with women and dating, then you need to think and behave different. Approach them on the other way round so that you are offered a drink from them.
There some nice and polite guys that makes their approach desperate. They make their approach really obvious either buy telling her how beautiful she is, what her name is or by buying her a drink right away. Hold yourself there because you know that women like men that are difficult to get. You must be eager to know the reason? The reason is simple they get fun in challenges. The key to successful dating is not chasing women, let them chase you. And for that you need to be different and if you come off as an interesting and rare man then be sure to get your lady of love. She will get curious and start taking interest in you thus lessening your job of approaching a beautiful woman. Therefore groom yourself with undeniable personality, grow confidence and improve your power of speech so that you are a complete institution of a complete man in yourself to whom women who once gets contact will love to die in your arms.
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