Christian Singles:Doing It Jacobs Way

The story of creation was heralded by the creation of man and woman, and basically that is where it all began. It is the needs of Adam to have a companion that give the Christian singles something that reflect their situation. Most of them have passed the age of puberty and maturity comes with its needs. The need for a woman or a man can drive a human being into problems, and it is the reason as to why these young people must always be on the look out, so that they can have viable relationships. One thing you should never let to take charge of your search of a lifelong partner is the society’s ideals of a perfect partner, which are formulated from the point of view of human eyes and are not endowed by God. Christian singles must at all times base their search of a lifelong or dating partner from the tenets set fourth by the bible, or what the great men of the bible followed through in their search for that balance in their relationships. Otherwise, basing their relationships on physical beauty and outward body features makes them ignore the inherent values that make a relation last longer and true concern for each other, as well as true human feelings and the need to have one another. It is something that many Christian singles have in mind, and yet they are making mistakes as they ignore the underlying values which make them appreciate each other forever. The story of Jacob gives the Christian singles some values and things to follow through. Jacob was one of the most patient men when it comes to marriage issues in the bible. He persevered year after year as seven years begot another seven, as he worked for Rachel, yet he had Leah as his first wife. Patience is a virtue, and everybody who is patient reaps the fruits in plenty. The bible states that Jacob rather than receive wages asked Laban to give him Rachel as his wife, and he was ready to work for seven years for her. He was the one who suggested the seven years as the bible categorically states that the seven years passed like just a few days, since he was in love. Christian singles are always in hurry to cement their relationships today, and some have found themselves falling in the trap of marrying someone not because of their values and true love, like Jacob , even if he had another wife. It is good to take sometime and deduce your relationship, rather than hurry yourself into something that you will regret later. As Christian singles, it is better to take some years in selective dating as you ascertain who the best companion for you is, rather than take a couple of months and thought you had known someone, only to be surprised at the end of the day. Never let the specifications of the world affect your decision; take your time and the best that is endowed by God shall come your way.