Dating Advice For Men - 3 Tips on How to Make Women See You As the Guy They Want

Posted: Aug 24, 2010 |

Dating can be a dilemma at times. You know that what you want to do is to attract more women, and be seen as the kind of guy that they want to date. You also know that you do not want to be put in the friends category with a woman. Well, then you go and do what you think will make her want to date you and... you end up right in the friends category, right where you did NOT want to be.

Here are 3 tips on how to make women want to date you:

1. If you want to be the one that she wants to date, then you need to be a little more straight forward.

Most guys think that they are doing the "right" thing by acting like they are not really trying to get a date with a woman. They think that the more friendly they appear, she will just naturally want to date them. Well, that is more likely to get her thinking of you as being just a friend than anything else. If you want to get a date with her, you have to be straight forward and not tip toe around the fact that you are not trying to be her friend.

2. You need to approach her with confidence.

When approaching a woman, you have to keep in mind that she will be making a judgement of you right away. She can't help it, it's the way that people are, including women. If when you approach her, she gets the sense that you totally lack confidence in yourself, then she is naturally going to feel a lot LESS attraction towards you. You might not think that this is fair, but it is just the way that it is.

3. You need to make her want you by making yourself look like the alpha male.

Humans are still pretty much wired the same way that they were thousands of years ago, and this explains why the alpha male always seems to do a lot better than a total wimp when it comes to attracting women. Back then, a total wimp meant that she probably would not survive and although that may not be the case today, women are still wired to make their judgments based on this. You need to be able to really give off the impression that you are the alpha male if you want to attract the woman that you want.

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