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Dating Tips for Men Over 40: 5 Dating Tips to Help you Date Sexy Women No Matter your Looks, Age or Income

When Dave married Sue, his high school sweetheart, he envisioned the typical marriage scenario. He dreamed of a big house with a white picket fence, a couple of kids, career growth, prosperity, grandkids, retirement and maybe even adjacent burial plots.

That was 25 years ago.

Now their youngest child left for college and Sue filed for divorce.

It's a sad fact that divorce rates are rising all the time. So the older you are, the more likely you are to be looking for a new partner. However, most men who have spent almost a generation of their lives in a marriage only to find themselves slightly past their youth are terrified of the idea of trying to re-enter the world of dating. Once their chins and chests sag, their hips or waist thicken, and their bellies rise, the concept of flirting, let alone trying to find a new romantic partner, seems like a world that has passed them by.

They say, "I can't go on a date. I'm over 40 and I surely do not look like I did when I was younger!"

As the dating tips master I've heard this over and over again. And even though some might think by the time a man gets closer to or exceeds the mid-century mark, he'd have his game down. But, based on my own experience, it isn't necessarily the truth. You just need some sage reminders on how to improve the quality of your love life

Here Are My Top 5 Dating After 40 Tips to Help You
Skyrocket Your Success with Sexy Women:


Dating tip #1: Don't date. Yes, you heard me right; I said don't date. Think about a traditional "date." It's full of pressure, awkwardness, evaluation and it just plain sucks. What do you do on a traditional date? Dinner, movie, kiss goodnight, and then she doesn't return your calls. Trust me, it's much better (and cheaper) to meet for coffee. It's fun and relaxed with none of the normal dating expectations.

Dating tip #2: The less you do and say, the more she's attracted to you. Most guys try to impress sexy women, or "lay a rap" on them. Sexy women have heard it all before. But, if you ask her about herself, shut up and listen, and display a SMALL degree of interest, she'll begin to wonder why you're not slobbering all over her. She'll want to discover more. Now you're a challenge, and sexy women love challenging guys.

Dating tip #3: Be a gentleman but also be a "naughty little boy." Remember the "class clown" in elementary school—the guy who was cool and funny all at the same time? When you're talking to sexy women, make unexpected and mischievous comments. Leave them thinking, "I can't believe he just said that… but I like it." This shows sexy women you're NOT impressed by their looks and you need to see more. And because this is so different from what they're used to, they can't help but be attracted. I cannot emphasize the importance of this dating tip.

Dating tip #4: Avoid all canned pick up lines or any type of acting. Sexy women have heard it all before. As soon as you spout one, you're instantly what I call a JAG (just another guy). And JAG's don't get sexy women!

Dating tip #5: Look out for her tests. Sexy women will test you to see if you'll stand up to them. If you can't stand up to her, you can't stand up for her. If she asks you to buy her things, that's a test. It's also a perfect opportunity to be a naughty little boy as described in dating tip #3. Say something like, "What do I look like an ATM machine? You should buy ME something, just for the privilege of spending time with me. I like sexy women who buy me things!" Say this in a playful, yet firm manner that lets her know you're onto her. When you pass their tests, it drives sexy women wild with desire.

Obviously there are lots of other dating tips, tricks and secrets you can put to use to grab a hold of the sexy woman of your dreams and never let her go. But if you pay attention to these dating tips, you'll be a whole lot more successful with sexy women. I guarantee it. So, go re-read all the dating tips again and start having more fun on your dating adventures!

John Alanis

Dating Tip Master John Alanis, has helped millions of men just like you flawlessly date sexy women no matter their age, looks or income. Now you Get John's free "politically incorrect attraction and dating tips" newsletter at http://www.johnalanis.com/pr1.htm & instantly receive 5 free "How to Get Beautiful, Sexy Women to Approach You First!" reports full of forbidden attraction secrets and insider dating tips you need to know.

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When Dave married Sue, his high school sweetheart, he envisioned the typical marriage scenario. He dreamed of a big house with a white picket fence, a couple of kids, career growth, prosperity, grandkids, retirement and maybe even adjacent burial plots.

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