Feeling The Mood For Approaching Women
by Alex Coulson
Getting in the right head space to approach women
I often find that even some of my closest acquaintances still make excuses not to walk up to women and one excuse is “I’m not in the mood”. Usually it’s the unease that gets to them.
So how exactly do you ‘get’ into the frame of mind to walk up to women – Simple! Just follow some simple tips below as these will put you in the mood to meet those ladies in no time:
Getting in the mood to walk up to women #1
Go out with a ally and have a word for the night and the goal of the game is to say that word as many times in each interaction you have with a woman without her noticing it or pulling you up on it.
This is a amusing way to rid yourself of worry and eventually you’ll forget about it altogether.
For example: My favorite word for the night is “ding dong” I’m usually out with my mate and I’ll be saying this word several times in sentences and make it flow. The girls have no idea why my buddy is laughing uncontrollably but they’re intrigued.
This is a very enjoyable game to play – try it next time you’re out with a buddy. Trust me you’ll be having a enjoyable in no time!
Getting in the frame of mind to approach women #2
Watch a funny movie before heading out. I watch ‘there’s something about mary’ or ‘wedding crashers’ this really puts me in a light hearted frame of mind. ‘Family guy’ is also a great pick. That way you start off the night on a good note and you may also have a few jokes up your sleeve.
Getting in the frame of mind to meet women #3
Smile; just smiling will put you in a good frame of mind ready to meet women. It’s also a fact that men that smile more often tend to be more positive and do attract more women. Everyone is attracted to positive, smiling people and not just women! So even if you don’t feel like it turn that frown upside down and crack out your best Kodak moment smile.
This also takes the fretfulness away too and you’ll be having a entertaining time in no time.
Getting in the mood to approach women #4
Have ONE (1) drink. You’re allowed to have a drink to feel the mood and start approaching women however ensure that you don’t rely on it always. When I head out every now and then I have a few beers as I enjoy it and it adds value to my night. I most certainly don’t need them to meet women. However if you’re still feeling the anxiety maybe a little Dutch courage will do the trick though just make it one (1) drink for starters.
Want to learn the best way to walk up to , attract and seduce women without nervousness?
If so, take a look at Alex Coulson’s Free Audio Ebook that provides top tips when it comes to attracting women in your life. http://www.DatingWorkshops.com.au
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