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When you've been married for a while and then have gotten a divorce, it can be easy to feel a little 'rusty' when it comes to the dating thing. When you want to meet someone that you really like, you may have to do a little flirting to get her to notice you! If the thought of this makes you get that 'clueless' look on your face - no fear! Here are some really great flirting tips for divorced men.
Flattery Will Get You Everywhere -
Women love compliments, but believe it or not - there is a technique to it! The first and most important thing you want to remember is to always be honest when you're giving compliments. Look for the things that stand out most about a woman - perhaps it's her eyes or her lips or maybe she is very intelligent - whatever it is, use that as your compliment. Never, ever be dishonest when you're giving a compliment because she will pick up on it right away. Women are perfectly aware of their flaws and positive traits - so beware!
Make Eye Contact and Listen When She's Talking -
Another very great tip for flirting is to make eye contact with a woman while she is talking to you. Don't look away and let your eyes wonder off. If she says something you find interesting, lean in a bit and keep eye focus. Also, ask follow-up questions so that she knows you're really interested in what she has to say. This is a great way to get her attention and make her feel special! Women love to know that when they are speaking, a guy is actually listening to her, so remember this one!
Avoid Pick-Up Lines -
'You're so hot I would drink your bath water.' Yuck! Whatever you do, avoid pick-up lines. They scream teenager or college boy and they are very unattractive for mature, confident women. If you want to approach a woman, simply walk up to her and say hello. One of the best pick-up lines on earth is a simple smile! Ask her if you can buy her a drink or if you can sit next to her. Mature women can pick up on flirting very easily and you might be surprised how many of them take the lead and you will not feel so uncomfortable!
Using these flirting tips for divorced men, you can meet some great women and have a fantastic time - without looking like a fool! Most of all, just be yourself and you will see how easy it is to get back into the 'flirting' state of mind. It's more than just memory - you've got instinct on your side, so don't worry too much!
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