Free Online Dating Tips - Chat and Body Language

Chat and Online Dating advice:  Understanding body language.

Communication is not based just on the spoken word.  A great deal of learning is conveyed by body language, tone also via non verbal communications.  Without looking at a person, it can be really easy to misunderstand or to give the wrong importance to words of phrases.  This can often be the case with emails as people cannot often assess the humor behind someone's tone and therefore view a message as being alot more serious than it is.

Knowing and utilizing good body language could make the difference between a lasting relationship and an online dating failure.  It's very important therefore, if engaging in online dating or online chat,to know this concept and to make it obvious when your chat is light hearted and humorous and when you are serious. Knowing the role body language plays in a conversation and chat is equally important when you meet your chat friend for the first time.  When we trust someone, its common to pay less attention to the conversations we hear, however with new acquaintances we assess this person to a higher degree.  Make certain that all of your signals stay positive and you cannot fail to impress

Understanding Body Language and chat
Body language is characterized of being made into groups of postures and meanings.  It can be easier to understand the body language of others by taking certain body language groupings rather than concentrating on individual gestures.

When somebody is attentive and seemingly interested in what is being said it is flattering and makes you like that person you are speaking to.  The art of making our bodies show that you are listening is not difficult to learn.  The answer is to ignore distractions, phone calls and other people's chat while keeping your body mostly still.  Move or lean forward to indicate to the person that you are interested in what they are saying or doing - appearing to get nearer in order to hear them.  Slightly tilt your head towards them, look at the person while they are talking and show your interest by slightly furrowing your brow.  Its  very important to stay patient when the other person is speaking, pause slightly before you respond as if you are absorbing everything that they have said. 

Open body language can be used for many conversations hopefully leading to a friendship.  Open body language means your arms and legs are not crossed, open hands indicating a lack of concealment, extended eye contact and a smile shows that you are open and warming to the idea of your friendship.

Slow nodding and interest noises can confirm your intent and encourage the other person to keep speaking.  When you consider the other persons actions they are comfortable that you understand and have the same opinions to their own.

All of this advice will help others to understand and like you and will show your appear open and honest.  Read our other body language articles to find out about more subliminal body language signals you can utilize to impress your perfect partner.

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