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This is never a fun place to be. If you can somehow get your mind off your ex you can think straight enough to find some way to get them back. I'm going to tell you about one way you can increase your chances of getting back together with them. Just by reading this article you've taken an important first step.
You need to cut off contact with your ex for about a month. This is known as a cool down period where both of you can think about what went wrong in the relationship. This no contact period is to try to not see seem except in unavoidable circumstances. If you work together, this can be tough to do, but otherwise, stop ALL contact with them. It might help to either hide or get rid of anything you may have that reminds you of them.
You're trying to get your mind clear enough to refocus on getting them back. You don't have to get over them or move on in this period, but you do need to be able to think clearly enough to take rational action once you're deadset on reuniting with them. After this first month you'll probably be missing them like crazy. Your ex should be missing you as well, especially since they now have a reason to because you've had no contact with them for so long.
While you have this month of no contact there are things you can be doing to also improve your chances. You would be surprised how much can be done while you're not in contact with them. It's important not to waste this time if you want to get your ex oyfriend or girlfriend back as soon as possible. Right after a break up this is one of the main rules people break that hurt their chances of getting them back, so if you want to make sure you're on the right foot when you start teh quest back to them start first with no contact.
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