How do I get my ex back even if my situation seems hopeless? Can I do it?
Are you currently trapped in the situation that I have described above? You know what, you are definitely not alone. In fact, there are probably some people who are stuck in a worse situation than you.
Below are a list of problems that people can face after a break up:
1) Your friends and family members care about you but they don't really understand what you want. All they do is to keep on telling you that you should move on to a better relationship.
You know they have good intention but you feel hurt when they don't understand you. You feel like the whole world is against you.
2) You really want to get your ex back. So you tried to contact your ex. Unfortunately, your ex ignores you and you are totally at a loss of what to do. How can you get your ex back when he/she is ignoring you.
These are all probable problems that stack the odds all against you. So, what can you do about it? Well, first, you have to really ask yourself whether you want to get your ex back.
Yes, suddenly I started sounding like your friends and family members. But this is really important. If you are not really sure yourself, how can you convince your friends and family members?
And if your ex is ignoring you, you probably should stop calling him/her for the time being as being too persistent is not going to help you in this situation. This is especially true if you have just broken up.
Perhaps one month will be a good time period. This allows both of you to regain composure. You will then be in a better decision to decide whether you still want to get your lover back.
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Help me get my bf back
By: sienna09 | 16-11-2008
hi, my bf broke up with me 3 years ago... he said that he had to choose beteween an idylic life with me and more freedom... travel around the world more precisely... so there wasn't anything wrong with our relationship.... just his selfishness. I was devasted because it was so sudden and the news came just a few days after we were planning to move togehter. So it took me lots of time to heal my wounds.. i struggled with confusion and pain and i blamed myself for not being enough smart, beautiful... so on. A few months back he contacted me again, saying that he needs to coummunicate with me becuase i was a very important person in his life and he tries being a better person... after some weeks we met and we became close again.. well, gradually but we both felt very good togehter and had a wonderful time, it was like we never been apart, it was so natural and normal... same gestures and kidness and carrying. after i left, because we don't leave in the same country i thought we are back togehter, but it's like he puts a break again to our relationship and i feel he takes his distance again. i asked him if we are back togehter and he said that we are very close friends and what happened was because of nostalgia and loneliness. the problem is that our time togehter brought back my feelings for him and i feel lost again between confusion, hope and and pain. I want him back in my life because we are so good togehter, it's easy, it's normal we understand eachother perfectly... the time we are toghether. What can i do, any advise woulkd be helpful. Thank you in advance. sienna
I met with my ex and she said she enjoyed the time ...
By: maranda | 27-09-2008
I met with my ex and she said she enjoyed the time together then she said that we could do this more often and that seeing each other helped both of us. This happened Wednesday then I saw her Friday night at a bar with a friend. She saw me but didn't say hi neither did i but, i did the same thing a couple of weeks ago. What does she want?
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