How To Approach Women
by Alex Coulson
Here is my quick and sweet policy to seducing stunning women.
Right so you’re at a bar, you have a cocktail by your side and you notice this totally hot girl standing by herself as she waits for her party friends, you know you only have a seconds before they meet her so you better act quickly what you should start a conversation with her with, how you would walk over there without being too dorky and make it look normal and disinterested where deep down inside you know you want her … so much.
However you don’t walk over there to talk to her for fear of the approach and you get home at 12am and you hit yourself and talk to yourself “dammit what’s wrong with me … why didn’t I talk to her!”.
This is most likely as this is what I used to be like. Well I’m glad I’ve changed for the better and the good news is so can you!
So you fancy to study how to talk to women in bars huh?
Picking up stunning women is a challenge for most men however if you understand some easy steps to approaching, attracting and continuing the conversation with hot girls then picking up girls will be a heck of a lot simple to do. The key to success with picking up hot girls is all in the attitude and theway you act.
Step #1 Clear your head and stop thinking so much
This is probably the most pivotal advice I can give you, stop living in your mind and worrying about what other people think of you. If you’re trying to think “what do I say” just before you approach then chances are you won’t approach as you’re blank minded there trying to imagine something original to to talk about.
Step #2 Stop caring about hot girls rejecting you
This takes plenty of practice and persistence. Stop trying to think about rejection! If you keep worrying about messing things up or running out of things to say, then guess what’s going to happen … That’s right you guessed it you’re going to run out of things to say! If you let your fear own you then you’re not living your own life.
Step #3 Don’t compliment women too early unless it’s sincere
Women will gather that you’re “trying to pick her up” if you throw compliments at her after you just met, they’ll sense that you only want “one thing” and trust me you’re going about it the wrong way. Women don’t want to be complimented by every male unless it’s a sincere compliment!
Step #4 Appear like you have a beautiful partner already
Hot women are attracted to males who already have girlfriends. I know this is sounds strange but the non-neediness of these men builds and attracts good-looking women. So act like you have a girlfriend and you’re just out to have fun, by all means don’t tell her you have a girlfriend as your chances of mounting the wagon will plummet.
Step #5 Don’t let a bad approach dishearten you from more approaching more good-looking women
I approach/walk up to on average 40 groups of attractive women on any given Friday or Saturday night and I get huge success and not all women I approach go well, in fact I’ve met some malicious pieces of work though I didn’t let this phase me and neither should you. I just kept on approaching these attractive women.
Want to learn the best way to approach, attract and seduce fine-looking women without fear?
If so, take a look at Alex Coulson’s Free Audio Ebook that provides top tips when it comes to attracting good-looking women in your life. http://www.DatingWorkshops.com.au
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