There was a time that i thought that seducing women and getting them to be attracted to me involved how good i looked, the amount of the contents in my wallet and or the limousine that i usually parked outside my house suggestively. This is what i thought, but what i know now makes everything really tricky. But then i ask, as a man, how am i supposed to know what a woman is looking for really, unless i ask her? If i ask, there is one fact i am faced with which is common to all the women you will find, my chances of getting her get smaller and thinner. Women do not like being asked questions , they want a man who somehow knows what she really want and give it to her without questions asked. So now am asking myself, what do i do about this? How do i show confidence, dominance and presence without being arrogant and or desperate for her.
The art of Seducing women lies in psychology. As a man you have to persuade her meaningful in any social set up you find yourself in. This is important if you have to succeed in any attempt to seducing women. It is actually a measure of how successful you would be as a man if you play the seduction game effectively. What am saying is this; Play the game by learning the right psychological rules, the right principles and the right tactics, any man can play and win at the game of seducing women. Using these tactics will definitely boost your chances of getting a girls number and hooking up with her for a date.
When seducing women, they are presented with more than one choice, they often naturally tend to rebel against it and go their own way. The woman will create her own alternative choice, naturally. However, when given more than one option, the exact opposite occurs, they feel their much sort freedom has been respected and they make their choice from the many options they’ve been presented with. Its not good, as a man to say to a woman something like “Can I have your number?” The most powerful and effective way of saying this is “It has been a pleasure i met you. Is it possible to swap numbers or maybe grab a bite to eat and a drink on Saturday?” This way you are presenting the girl with a choices that she can choose from. If she says yes to one of the options, you win. And this way even when you loose you win.
Its always good to give the impression that there are a variety of options available to your woman, even though each one is fine as far as you’re concerned. It would be imperative to always separate the choices you give the girl with the word “or.” When women hear “or” they automatically recognize that they need to make a choice, and therefore do just that. Its important to notice that men whether they know it or not, become successful with seducing women with what they create for themselves, not through luck or good fortune. This is a good way to show your woman that you appreciate her intellectual freedom and they feel good about it.
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